Developing an honourable and Respectful communication - Day 345

 

 

 

As we've seen in the previous blog: Cultural inherited Behaviour - overview - Day 344, that the way we communicate with one another is dependent on our Cultural Behaviour that we have integrated within ourselves from a very young age. We've seen that we have justified disrespectful and dishonourable communication with one another through our cultural behaviour within the equation we have formed: the way we communicate is valid (even if it is disrespectful and dishonoured) if it is in alignment to our Cultural Behaviour because everyone does the same. However, we have never stopped for a moment to investigate the validity of the Equation and align the equation to the Principle of:

- Give as you would like to receive

- Do unto another as you would like to be done unto you

 

Within this blog, we will start looking at how to transform our Communication skills to Communication that is effective, worthy and dignified wherein the starting point of such transformation must first be applied with ourselves as the living change. After all, we cannot expect any change if we haven't first taken responsibility for what we have accepted and allowed our communication skill to be like within the justification that it is valid according to our Cultural Behaviour.

 

First let's have a look at the word: "Communication"

Commune - I - Action.

 

'Commune' stand for Community of People

'I' stand for I as/of a community

'Action' stand for Movement.

When bringing these components together - I am moving with and as the Community or in other words: 'Communication' is in essence a movement of people together.

 

This can be also seen through the following sounding of the word Communication:

Come-Unification -> Coming together in unification.

 

Community must be based in communication - the coming together in unification - and if we take a look at this world, we can see that neither community, nor communication is here, because we have yet to establish self-honest, SELF-communication; but have instead turned our backs on ourselves and each other in order to chase after a daydream of happiness that never comes - and the outflow of this has created a nightmare in this physical reality. This nightmare has real consequences, for real beings - so we must first wake up, stand up, learn to hear and listen to OURSELVES; place ourselves in our own shoes, to get walking this path of self-correction so we can dignify ourselves, in order to thus then be able to effectively learn from, hear and listen to others; place ourselves in the shoes of another, and in this way walk all life here into real dignity - one by one, until it is done.

Source:  http://lindsaycraver.blogspot.com/2012/04/2012-communication-coming-together-in.html

 

Thus, when looking at the sounding of the word Communication - the solution to our Cultural Behaviour of disrespect and dishonour of one another which within that, behaviour that is directly and indirectly responsible for the abuse of Humanity, Nature and Animals as a whole, is within the word itself. Thus, once we Move together in Unification we could bring about a world that is best for all unlike the way we currently move together, towards the destruction of this world.

 

Once we understand the importance of Developing effective Communication with one another, we could start moving one step forwards towards establishing Communication that is based on Practical Principles which trough this, we could rather expand, grow and empower one another instead of diminishing, disrespecting and abusing one another.

 

So - the HOW TO - Here it is suggested to start walking our process to self Honesty where the Communication within and without are Equal and One. Find out more about the Mind and the Physical through a personal experience and testing - investigate the DIP LITE to support yourself in developing an effective communication with yourself and research the Equal Money System so that we could start communicating with our fellows Human beings that would all live in a world that is best for all. Let's bring all the points together into unification and communication would not just be a random word but a living word as an example that a change is possible if we only dare to.

 

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• Cultural inherited Behaviour - overview - Day 344

Cultural inherited Behaviour - overview - Day 344

Yesterday I had an interesting communication with another 2 Israeli people; From my perspective, the 3 of us were simply sitting together for a cup of coffee, enjoying each other and having a discussion. After a while, another person came out from their room and suggested us to pay attention to how we communicate with one another because it sound to them as if we are fighting. They suggested we have a Speaking Stick where only the person who holds the stick may talk. The person explained that from what they could hear - we kept on interrupting one another and constantly were speaking without taking a moment to actually hear what the other is saying.

 

Our first reaction was: "well, this is the Israeli way of communication"; for a moment, I was satisfied, it was the Israeli way, we do respect each other, don't tell me how I should speak. Please!? In that moment, I haven't stood up and transformed my Reaction into a point of correction and thus I missed a moment of opportunity to Quantify my process by moving myself to a point of immediate correction.

 

So, when I investigated the point for myself, I've seen a few interesting points:

The way I was taught to communicate with another, which became an integral part of how I express myself, is disrespectful dishonourable. Using the excuse that this is how we used to communicate doesn't make it ok or valid but rather perpetuate the absurdity of us justifying why it is ok to be disrespectful to another through our inherited cultural behaviour in communication.

The second point I was looking at is how easy it is to continue harming and abusing another when it's part of the way we have always accepted and allowed our behaviour to be. Because here, we all had a window to take a moment and investigate the point within ourselves and yet, we immediate moved to the justification that the way we speak with another is valid because this is how we always do things in our culture.

 

It is that easy to justify our cultural behaviour without taking a moment and apply the principles:

Investigate all things and keep that which is best for all and do unto another that which you would have liked to be done unto you and if we cannot even stop for a moment and look at a simple point such as our communications skills with another, it is not a surprise that we have never stopped to investigate the relationship between our cultures and the harm/abuse that is accepted and allowed in this world and justified with: "it was always like that".

 

So - from the smallest to the greatest, let's walk one point at a time. In my next blog I will be walking the specifics of how to transform our communication to a communication that is honourable and respectful where we actually hear one another and process the information that is shared , where we are actually considering what the other is saying and not just fighting with another for our own limitations. Then, we will have a look at the relationships between the cultural designs and the world system as a whole.

I can Die tomorrow, get hit by a bus - Day 318

A momentary brake from the line of blogs I'm currently walking in relation to Education and Capitalism since a point opened up for me last night that I would like to share.

 

I was watching Grey's Anatomy, the end of season 5 (if you haven't watch it and are planning to watch it, be aware that there is a spoiler here) - George was facing a moment in his life where he felt alone within himself, as if he doesn't belong anywhere - not with his family, not with his friends and he started showing signs of depression.

A patient of his, a solider in the Iraq war, experienced pain in his leg and although the leg was perfectly healthy, the patient asked the doctor to cut off his leg so that he could return to Iraq with a prostatic leg. The doctor, that didn't want to cut off a perfectly healthy leg asked him why he wish to do so and the patient explained to her that in Iraq, with his solider friends, is the only place in the world he felt belong. George heard him and thus decided to enlist to the Army the very next day.

 

When George's friends heard about it, they all freaked out and decided to intervene and try to stop George from going through with his decision. There was one Doctor, that wasn't George's friend, which said that it is awesome that he is going to the war because her brother came back from the war in a coffin because there where not enough doctors to save his life.

 

At the same time, there was another story of a man who jumped in front of a bus to save another woman's life. This man was extremely injured and just before he died, he was able to find a way to tell Grey that it was George.

 

So - the Problems that I found within this episode:

 

In no point, the validity of having the War in Iraq was mentioned or discussed and it seems that the war was taken for granted by all. The idea that young man and woman who goes to "serve their country" in wars was perpetuated and defined as patriotic as if someone is a Hero for scarifying their lives for the well being of the American people. Even when the Solider expressed his self interest of going to the war because it is the only place he feels belong was not looked at as there is nothing heroic in going to the war to make friends, but an act of stupidity really. An act of stupidity that is validated by the country instead of providing the necessary assistance and support for people who believes and perceives themselves to be lonely while the fact of the matter is  that the Experience of not feeling belong is a self created experience within and as one's mind due to the extent of separation we accepted and allowed ourselves to exists as and the lack of understanding of the relationship between the Mind and the Physical which would make one go and make choices that do not support oneself or this world as a whole.

 

What is more concerning is that these types of Episodes in TV series are actually an Hidden advertisement for the Army, to encourage and influence humans to go and fight in wars, and specifically those who believe that they have nothing to lose because after all, they may find friends in the war, not seeing, realizing and understanding the consequences and the outflows wars manifests through our collective blinded acceptances and allowances and within that, how we are directly responsible through our own participation and our support of wars.

 

BUT then, there is the primary point where the Hidden promotion and advertisement for the Army enrolling take place and that is by debunking the Experience of Fear of Death in War by perpetuating the saying 'I can die tomorrow, get hit by a bus' because after all, George didn't die in the Iraq war as a Hero, he died as a Hero by saving another life when he threw him self on a bus to save another woman's life. The point of getting hit by a bus is to perpetuate the fact that people can die in any moment from unexpected and sudden death to transmit the message that, going into war is a rational decision because one can die in any moment. However, while getting hit by a bus or dying from unexpected and/or sudden death cannot be compared to a deliberate decision to join the army, to fight in a war zone where the chances of being killed are enormous. Thus, this episode was a deliberate advertisement to call people to enrol to war by giving them 'Rational' point of view when looking at such decision even though, there is nothing rational about it and especially, if one consider the origin and reason for war to take place from the get go.

 

So the solution -

EDUCATE yourself and understand the REAL reason for wars in this world. I suggest starting with the book: 'Confession of the Economic Hit man' and continue with the Documentary 'War on Democracy'.

I, as an Ex Israeli Solider, feel SHAME that I haven't considered and investigated the points before I was forced by my country to serve in the army. In fact, I was excited to go to the army but really, not because I felt that I must protect my country but because I heard so many stories about people that found their partner in the army and made such a good friends in the army and I wanted to experience these experiences myself. Only later, while being in the army and having to face my fear of death when I was sent to a war zones to do some irrelevant job, that I started questioning my reasoning of going to the army and yet, it took me another 12 years to really question why in the name of god war exists, why kids are forced to serve in the army and who benefit from wars. I can honestly say that the reason why Israel is still at war with its neighbours was not understood by me when I was 18 years old and no one told me or mentioned the real reason for it. in fact, the harm and abuse that exists within the Israeli/Arab relationship is something that most Israeli nor Arabs are truly aware of. That is still kept in secret because if people would know the truth, not many will agree to go to the army which would cause a major economic collapse for those in power and control in this world.

 

With regards to one's experience of not feeling belong or alone, I suggest to start your process of bringing all the pieces of yourself together, to realize that alone cannot even be possible in this physical reality but only through the separation of the mind that cannot compute Equality and Oneness with everything that exists.

Join today to the Free online course - DIP Lite and start your process of realizing who you are as Life - it is a long process so don't waste another moment.

 

Then another suggestion is - when you watch TV series - check yourself, investigate your reactions, see what activates within and as yourself, how it changes you mood, how it effect your decision making, how it support your imagination and fantasies, what ideas and opinion it perpetuate within yourself that in common sense and reasoning thinking, does not support the Principle of that which is best for all Lives.

 

Understand the brainwashing and the hidden advertisement that exists within the Media to discover the real and ugly truth - we do not have really a free choice as our decisions and choices where implanted in side our minds through the Media channels as this is the way for those in power and control to sustain the status quo of a world that is best for only a few while we are being the servants and the slaves without being aware of it in any way whatsoever.

 

The reward in doing so - for myself, when I watch TV series and I notice reactions that are coming up from within me, I would stop and investigate the nature of these reactions as I've seen, realized and understood that these reactions are controlling and enslaving me to my own mind through my own acceptance and allowances. Today's Media is designed and structured to make the audience so limited in the way they view and experience Life and through this limitation, we gave our power away and thus, automatically and blindly accepted the world as it is without ever investigating  how this world really works and functions and thus stand up, to end the atrocities, abuse and suffering that exists within this world.

 

 

 

From Evilness to Life - Day 226

There are moments in time where one sees what one is doing to another, what it is that one is deliberately accepting and allowing within and as oneself, one see’s how one's words and actions has an affect on others in harmful and destructive ways and yet, one would continue one's participation in one's design/program/pattern/character/personality and would never take responsibility for such moments in making sure that one would not accept and allow oneself to ever again harm oneself and other human beings in this world.

 

This is why I am now writing this blog as I've seen in myself the Evilness that exists within myself, that I've accepted and allowed to accumulate Evilness  over the years, without giving myself any constructive and supportive direction and as such, my actions, my words and my resonance outflows, may harm and cause damage to others as the only things that I would consider in such moments are ME and my Experiences and I would not consider the other beings at all. Till here no further.

 

This blog will be an overview of the points that I've seen within and as myself thus far and from here, I would go into more details and specifics in assisting and supporting myself in walking the path of standing Equal to and One as other human beings and within that, stand as a support rather than a machine that suck the life out from other beings to sustain my Ego/Personalities as how I've defined myself as 'who I am' in separation of myself, others and this world as a whole.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to desire to be so much more than another human being that within that, I would accept and allow myself to walk over their toes and smash them so completely, in making them so small within and as my mind so that I could remain in control over them which would give me the Experience that I'm More. Within that, I forgive myself that I've not accepted and allowed myself to question myself as to why and how I have accepted and allowed the pattern/design as desire to be more, to exists within and as me and within that, haven't assisted and supported myself in stopping this pattern/design as the desire to be more and accordingly standing in alignment to the other being, in an assisting and supportive relationship instead of diminished and compromised relationship that would not benefit anything or anyone.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to try and attempt to make people so small in comparison to me, in my own mind, internally and externally and thus utilized all my "powers" as manipulation and defence tactics in doing all that I can so that they won't grow and expand themselves within who they are so that I won't have to stand in Equality with them but always remain more than them, in my own eyes but then, not seeing, realizing and understanding that I'm not only compromising them, but also compromising myself in  deliberately not assisting and supporting myself and others, equally as one to grow, expand and empower ourselves in becoming effective, trustworthy and respectful human beings in this world.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to deliberately create and manifest relationships in my life with beings that I "see" and perceive as less than me so that I could always stand in a superior position, in control over them. Within that, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself when the Relationship Dynamic changes and the being is actually moving and changing themselves in assisting and supporting themselves to grow, expand and empower themselves within who they are, to react within and as myself because how I have defined myself as more and superior according to them, has now collapsed and I can no longer sustain the superior personality that I've created within and as myself. Within this, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to assist and support myself in standing in absolute self trust as who I am, without needing/desiring/wanting to be More than who I am and specifically, in comparison to others.

 

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see how Evil one can be and become, in how one would speak, move, behave to other human beings in one's world within and as oneself when and as one accept and allow oneself to deliberately manipulate oneself and one's relationships with other human beings, within the starting point of keeping the Relationship Dynamics as it always was in satisfying one's desire to define oneself according to a specific attribute or component that one perceive oneself as lacking within and as oneself through the other being.

 

I commit myself to STOP the Evilness that I've accepted and allowed within and as myself and within that, be aware of such moments where I would change my personality in the attempt to diminish others on my behalf, to sustain my own self created definition that I've defined myself as within my relationships with others.

 

I commit myself to assist and support myself in walking the process from Evilness to life that is best for all and within that, to investigate all the points within and as myself that I've accepted and allowed the Evil nature to override the principle of what is best for all life.

 

I commit myself to Re-Establish my relationships with other people in my world and direct myself within the relationships according to that which is best for all as a principle wherein, we transform the relationships to constructive and supportive where both would assist and support ourselves to grow, empower and expand ourselves as living beings instead of limit, compromise and diminish ourselves within who we are in our relationships to ourselves and each other.

 

I commit myself to investigate why and how I've created relationships that I could experience myself as superior and within that, its relationship to the polarized experience within and as myself, as inferior that I've attempted to suppress through creating relationship that would defined me externally, otherwise.

Changing the Human Nature - Day 89

This is a continuation to my blog:

Humans are so fucked up - you cannot trust anyone - Day 88

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to give up on Humanity within and as the statement: "Humans are fucked up - you cannot trust anyone" and I forgive myself that I have NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that all along, I have accepted my limitations, my programming and the design that I've created myself within and as and I have allowed the limitation, programming and design within and as this world, as equal to and one as me and through my acceptance and allowances, I directly responsible for us as humanity, in our current nature/design because I haven't take my own responsibility of stepping out of that which I've accepted and allowed myself to be and become in separation of me, stand as an example that a change is possible and that the only reason we won't allow ourselves to change is because or our self interest nature which blinds us from seeing clearly what we have ignored and disregarded from the beginning of time and how through our ignorance, we have accepted and allowed ourselves to create and manifest a world as it is exists today.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as the giving up character, to use, justify and make excuses of why I cannot change because changing would mean to let go of the character that I've created myself as, in separation of me and within that, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to forget that I was the one who created myself as the human nature, and that I was so powerful that I've even created the forgetfulness character so that I can make sure, that I will never bring myself back to myself within and as equality and oneness as LIFE that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself and this world as equal and one to realize, understand and see that so long as I accept and allow the evil secret mind that I've become in absolute equality and oneness and therefore, have accept and allow spiteful thoughts, jealousy, comparison, competition, judgement, diminishment of others in my mind, I cannot be trusted to the extent to which - if I think, I can't be trusted and within and as equality and oneness fuckupness - I cannot trust any one who accept and allow thoughts to be one's directive principle in separation of oneself and this existence as a whole.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to be petrified to face myself as my mind, as what I have accepted within myself and this world, and thus, the easy way out if through stating that the human nature will never change and within that, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to give my power away within the desire to belief that the human nature cannot be changed as I've abdicated my responsibility to test for myself whether I can change and stand as an example that the human nature can be changed.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to justify why I'm not willing to face that which I've accepted and allowed myself to be and become within and as the statement: "the human nature cannot be changed" and furthermore, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to hurt, harm and kill anyone who dared to stand up and prove that change, within and without is possible.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see that I'm EVIL in fact because I accept and allow myself to participate within and as my evil secret mind, judging, spiting, competing with everything and everyone: my best friends as well as my enemies and I haven't accepted and allowed myself to realize that unless I take the responsibility to in fact face myself and all that I've accepted and allowed within myself and within this world, I'm directly responsible for the abuse that manifested within and as this world.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to use the excuse: If I stop my mind, I will become a zombie" and I haven't taken the responsibility to test and confirm that excuse/belief for myself because within and as me I already KNEW and didn't want to face that stopping the mind is the KEY, stopping the mind is an extensive process that one has to walk in absolute self dedication.

I commit myself to show that a change is possible through my 7 years commitment of writing. And so, through writing myself out, I stand as an example that a change is possible because I've committed to myself to never give up on myself, as I see, realize and understand that giving up on myself means that I'm giving up on LIFE that is best for all.

I commit myself to show the stupidity loop that we have created as ourselves wherein us as the creators of the multiple characters within and as ourselves, also created a character to forget that we are in character and so, me within and as my powerfulness, have created a loop where we could never get out of, unless we do, through taking the responsibility to let go of all our characters, to download the program of and as LIFE that is best for all into and as our physical flesh and change who and what we have become to and as a principle of LIFE that is best for all.

I commit myself to show and expose that Trust cannot exists as long as one THINK. We have created a world based on thinking and it is clear that we haven't done a good job. Our relationships with others are based on thinking and it is obvious what goes on inside one's mind towards their beloved one. (if one dare to be self honest and admit to oneself the actuality of what I'm writing here)

I commit myself to SHOW and PROVE that when stopping the mind, one doesn't become a zombie, as I'm walking my own process of stopping the mind and it doesn't seem that I'm becoming a zombie but quite the opposite - fully expressive, A LIVE and functioning.

Humans are so fucked up - you cannot trust anyone - Day 88

From time to time, I hear the statement - "yes, it is fucked up, it's human nature, there is nothing we can do about it. We simply cannot trust anyone, there are people that will stab a knife in your back the moment you turn around, there will be those who will rape the neighbours daughter, there will be those who will murder the prime minister, there will be those…" and the list goes on and on and on.

However, what is fascinating is that within that statement or various types of statement within and as the nature of the statement above, one has already given up on humanity. One has already given up on the possibility to change human nature and simply accepted within and as oneself and allowed within and as this world, the fact that the human nature is so fucked up and there is nothing we can do about it.

But is it in fact so? Is it the human nature that cannot be changed or is it me that will not dare myself to change? I will vote for the second option as I've seen within and as myself the extent of self will that one must become for one to absolutely change one's preprogram design / the human nature.

Ok, so yes, we cannot trust anyone in this world but that is not because of who they are - it is because who we are within and as our own human nature/preprograming. Why?

Let's do an exercise - imagine a person you dislike. What are the thought you have about him/her? What is the nature of the thoughts you accept and allow within and as your mind? Can you see it? Not so pretty hay?

but now you will tell me - well, I don't like this person because of this and that and you will justify why it's ok that you have accepted and allowed those thoughts towards this person because I mean, that’s what everyone does when they don't like someone, nothing wrong with me disliking someone, so stop with your stupid questions.

Let's continue with our journey into the mind and now - imagine your best best best best friend in this world. Ohhh, that's nicer, it feels good now within and as yourself. I understand. BUT, your very best friend has now disagreed with you and a friction manifested; You'll have to become self honest now, to be able to answer the following question: What is the nature of your thoughts towards your best best friend now? What memories from the past did you bring to this moment of friction that have been suppressed until this very moment of friction till you burst all out and took all the shit out.

So you see, I wouldn't trust you as my best friend exactly as I wouldn't trust you if you were my biggest enemy so long as I know what's going on in your secret mind; and the only reason I know what’s going on in your secret mind is because I'm exactly the same as you, within and as the human nature that I've accepted and allowed myself to be and become. Meaning, as long as we THINK, we cannot be trusted and the only way we can be trusted by ourselves and others is when and as we stop thinking.

 

When we say that the human nature cannot be changed, it is ONLY because we don't want to change within and as ourselves, simply because we have never known ourselves otherwise. We believe that we will become zombies if we stop the mind but we never actually decided to test the point for ourselves to see if there is any ground to our belief. I mean, if it comes to the point that you would become zombie when the mind stop and you stop thinking than, go ahead and start thinking again. It is very simplistic.

The only way to make a change in this world, is to first stop our own evil secret mind that continuously think 24/7 non stop. We judge others, we judge even ourselves; we are jealous of others; we compete with everything and everyone for our own limitation; we're spiteful towards each other; would you want to be in relationship with yourself when you SEE very clearly what's going on in your secret mind towards those who are in relationship with you? would you want to be in relationship with others when you KNOW what is the nature of the thoughts they have towards you in a moment of friction? NO! and yet, we accept and allow it.

To be continued with a practical support within and as Self Forgiveness statements and Corrective Commitment - the tools of Stopping the mind and becoming LIFE that is trustworthy.

Manifested Belief as a Crime against Humanity - Day 69

For context, listen to the interview - How Energy and Money benefit from our Physical-Separation?

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to take for granted the hate towards my fellow neighbours within the belief that I must defend my country against them and thus, fight for my right to exists in my country and within that, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to question the belief and investigate the history of man to see the real nature of the belief of hate and why it was created and accordingly, stand up for myself and educate my people as well as the world with regards to the nature of such beliefs that serve only those with Money, disregarding the LIVES that are being destroyed daily in wars that only fatten the bellies of those in power.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to pass the hate I feel towards my neighbours to my children and thus, being responsible for continuing war and essentially allowing crime against humanity, because I haven't taken a moment, within my responsibility, to investigate the nature of the beliefs that we have against each other and to see, that it was all started with rumours and gossips that was supported by the Elite of this world who benefit from crime and war.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to take for granted the hatred feelings that I feel towards my neighbours because that was the cultural belief I was grew up with and within that, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to question my feelings and have simply accepted them to be valid through the cultural acceptance which I've defined myself according to and as.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to exists within and as constant war between humans, which I've defined as normal because I believed that I must protect myself against human nature, against those who wants to harm me and I have failed to see, realize and understand the brainwashing that was involved with imprinting those beliefs within humans; the brainwashing that was involved with the creation of the evil human nature that we must protect ourselves against. And thus, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to - instead of standing up and prove to myself that a change is possible, as within, so without and accordingly, stand as an example in this world because I start seeing, realizing and understanding the variables that were and are involved in this current world manifestation as a whole as well as us the individuals and thus, through a process of self education, I commit myself to show, expose and reveal, in great details how we have become what and who we have become and accordingly, present a solution for internal and external change in this world.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see the consequences of me raising my children within separation from themselves and their neighbours; that the consequences that manifested is a world that is based on abuse, suffering, crime against humanity, atrocity and not at all a world that I would actually want my children to born into; and thus, I take my responsibility to educate and raise the children of this world within and as Equality and Oneness so that instead of them participating and continuing the separation gap between human beings, they will instead be the glue that stick together all of humanity as a whole within and as a world that is best for all wherein the principle that would direct LIFE will be LIFE unlike Money that determine the lives of us all. For context - please listen to the song: Money or God by Matti Freeman.

 

I commit myself to go back in time and do proper research and investigation, with regards to the origin of hatred towards our fellow human beings and within that, track the path of money to see in more depth and clarity the relationship between the inherent belief of hate and money and how we have created the world we live in today.

I commit myself to show, expose and reveal the origin/source/reason for war/crime against humanity and the relationship between it to the elite of this world and obviously, Money.

I commit myself to assist with the development of educational programs for children and parents, for those who are willing and who dare to see our responsibility in the creation of this world and thus, one by one, we will stand up, educate the next generation to come to slowly but surely manifest a world that is literally, practically and physically best for all.

I commit myself to show, explain and expose the nature of the hatred that we have against each other that is based on inherited beliefs that were passed on from generation to generation and within that show who and what is benefiting from the imprinted beliefs throughout time.

The Secret War between Women - Mother Daughter relationship - Part 3 - Day 55

This is a continuation to:

The Secret War between Women - Overview - Day 52

The Secret war between Women - the Childhood years - Part 1 - Day 53

The Secret War between Women starts at home - Part 2 - Day 54

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see the influential consequences of the dynamics between the Mother/Daughter relationship and the secret war between Women, where the first War would be between the Mother and the child for example would manifest when and as the child 'perceives' the authority of the mother to be too rigid/not understanding/unsupportive and would then thus, develop back chat towards the mother which eventually externalized and become a habit in one's life towards other female that represent the mother figure in one's life.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a mother in this world to use my authority upon my child without walking with them the time line so that they could see the common sense equality equations for themselves and I have failed to realized that when I'm playing the authority game with them, it is inevitable they will create a resistance towards me and would then thus,  develop their rebellion war against me as a response to my authority game - the beginning of the Secret War between Women.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself, as a mother in this world, to for example, superimpose my fears onto my daughter and would forbid her to participate in social gathering which I've defined as inappropriate or dangerous without taking a moment to look in a practical common sense way whether my fears has any ground in the physical reality due to me that have inherited my fears from my parents which then influenced me within how I would direct points in my world instead of supporting myself to first turn the point back to myself, allocate my starting point and support myself to see the points directly through practical Self Forgiveness and corrective application.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a mother in this world to NOT realize, that by not communicating with my daughter through explaining in common sense why I believe that my daughter should not walk a specific path and thus forbid her from walking it by using my mother authority, my daughter will resist my authority and create a backchat/thoughts/internal conversations/reactions towards me which would perpetuate the secret war between women already at home.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to superimpose my failure within my Life onto my child , fearing that they will also fail, wherein I will teach her how to not make the same mistakes as I did and thus push her to excel in all areas of LIFE to have the best from all - Man, Career, children, clothes, friendships etc. and within that, I have failed to realize that my desires are not my child's desires and by me forcing her to walk a specific path which is not her own, she will create and manifest resistance towards my up bringing of her exactly as I have done towards my mother and within that, continue the cycle of War between women - mother/daughter generation after generation.

I commit myself to show the relationship between the superimposed authority of the mother upon her daughter and the secret war between women and within that, I commit myself to support mothers to learn how to upbringing their children in the utmost effective way by first sorting themselves to be able to stand as an example for their children, be able to understand themselves as their children and to walk in equality with them in absolute support for them to become effective human beings in this world.

I commit myself to show and explain in details the consequences of the existential inherited fears from generation after generation from the beginning of time and present, stand as a support for those who dare investigating themselves and physically/practically change according to principles of that which is best for all.

I commit myself to present technics and methods to support the parents with the upbringing of their children and to stop, for once and for all the abusive superimpose  authority upon children  and instead, establish a supportive relationship with them that will be based on self respect, trust and honesty.

The evil nature of competition – Day 8

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to allow the nature of competition to exists within and as me, in separation of me because I’ve NOT allowed myself to realize that the only being that I’m competing with is MYSELF because I did NOT respect myself enough to stop in every moment of engaging back chat in the nature of competition to bring the point back to myself to see how and why I’ve missed the entire time - MYSELF.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to sabotage my relationship with other human beings through continually and consistently compete for my survival as a personality which I’ve defined myself as, without realizing that no matter what was the outcome of the competition, I always lost -I lost myself, because I’ve accepted and allowed myself within that moment, to separate myself from myself as well as the being that I’m competing with.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to utilize the thoughts in the nature of competition as a gift wherein – I’m giving myself in that moment the opportunity to see what I’ve accepted and allowed myself to live as, take responsibility for myself, sort myself out, correct, change and integrate myself as the equality and oneness as the physical.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to see that because I have never considered myself as worthy, I’ve tried to win in all ways possible to be able to defined myself as more than but what I have NOT realized was that I can not define myself as worthy through the validation of someone or something else but instead to realize that Who I am is worthy of Life and I must thus embrace worthiness as me because otherwise, everything I do will coming from the starting point of proving and seeking for approval while the answer is always here – Myself.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to compete with those who I perceive to be a threaten to the personality that I’ve work so hard to maintain because I Believed that if my status as a personality will demolished, I will lose the potential of sustaining and attaining my desires and within that, I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to see that competition exists when desires exists (more on the point of desires will come soon)

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to see my responsibility within the world system that we’ve accepted and allowed to be based on competition as the desire for power and control which manifested the polarity between those who have and those who have not; because as long as I accept and allow myself to exists as a personality design that compete for my survival as the ego, I accept the world system to exits in the nature and likeness of competition without even considering Life that is best for all where competition no longer exists.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to compete with another being because I wasn’t willing to admit to myself and to the person that I was wrong and thus, I manipulated and alter my words so that I could present myself as right no matter what and within that – I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize the nature of competition and how it was designed – to hide and suppress the reality of self as inferior by attempting and trying to control and attain superiority so that one would not have to face what one has accepted and allowed oneself to be and become in total separation of self.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to take for granted the existence of competition within myself and this world because I’ve not directed myself to SEE why, How and What competition really implies and within that, I’ve separated myself from myself, my world and this existence through not taking the responsibility to investigate, understand and realize what we have become as humans that allowed the world to manifeste the consequences of destruction, abuse and suffering where self interest is the directive principle instead of What is Best for all Life.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that having discussion with someone in my mind in the nature of arguments and conflict IS a form of competition that I’m participating and accepting as me but only because I’m doing it secretly, I don’t ‘experience’ myself competing with anyone and thus, am able to define myself as righteous.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that by the very fact that I’m having arguments and conflicts with other beings in my mind, proves that the only being that I’m competing with is ME.

I commit myself to expose the nitty gritty within all the layers of my mind where I accepted and allowed myself to design, create and program myself in the nature of competition – to see the thoughts, behaviour, voice tonality, body postures and reactions and to correct myself within deleting the pattern in its totality.

I commit myself to be attentive and aware to – when and as I participate with thoughts in the nature of competition so that I could take responsibility for that which I’ve accepted and allowed to manifest within myself and my world in separation of me by bring the point back to myself and see where I’ve not aligned and sort out myself, direct, correct and change myself according and as principles that are best for all lives.

I commit myself to assist and support myself in all ways possible to stop and change the self accepted nature of competition within myself and my world.