Place yourself in the Shoes of Another to Understand the Extent of the Problem - Day 322

This is a continuation to my Previous blog: Are we Really Hearing with Each Other? Day - 321 where I shared the Problems that I've seen within human beings communication and within that, how we are not only Hearing each others as we Hear others through our Personality/Character we believe is ourselves but also, we are not considering the others when we share/speak with them that which is in our minds and in this, what we perceive to be a valid point to share, may lead to consequences and outflows that is out of our ability to direct, assist and support since what we shared, had already birth a dimension/layer within the other being Minds and thus, had created unnecessary friction and conflict within and as themselves. From here, they would have to have to live and face the consequences and thus it would prolong their process of self change because we abdicated our responsibility of walking in the shoes of another when and as we share a point/thought with another through our irresponsible and inconsideration of who the other is in one's totality because we didn't stand as the Directive principle, as the Living Words, as Breath, in a moment of communication with another, as a Pillar of support.

Within this blog, I will take this a step further into the world system so that we can see, realize and understand that the core/source of the world problem exists within and as our self interest human nature that hear ONLY oneself, only what Self wants to hear, will speak what Self wants to Speak and will act according to what Self believe to be valid according to one's Belief system that one had accepted and allowed as oneself. In this, One would never dare to walk in the shoes of another because then one would have to take responsibility and sort out the problem and in that, would force oneself to step out of one's comfort zone.

"...Engage the problem to understand the problem. Place yourself in all positions to gain a multi dimensional understanding. Observe where you have an interest you want to protect and why you want to protect it and justify your position. For instance – with money – place yourself with little money having to buy food and educate your children, then increase the money and see how your choices change –and then have a lot and see how you change – and then have equal money –enough for all and see why it is you are unable to give to others, yet you want for yourself – why this need to be better exist when it is not based in reality, but rather in an obsession to judge others, in an obsessive idea of inequality that makes you fear others will abuse you if there is equality – then find it in you to correct yourself to transcend the fears that you use to justify inequality –remembering the various conditions you have experienced through your imagination –now you have learned an effective way to use imagination—to understand how others live, without you having to go through it directly –make this experience valuable by changing that within you that cause others to suffer and then you will experience enlightenment and the world will become a better place when you make sure your experience that you integrate of a world where all have enough, becomes the world system in education, economics, education, politics, healthcare –we all have the capacity to teach ourselves –once we have removed our own justifications and fear of others as equals.."  

Bernard Poolman.

Fascinating enough, Bernard wrote this statement a few hours after an EQAFE interview was done,

The Crucifixion of Jesus - Part 28, an interview Bernard had no idea of its content, or that it was even done and I personally can confirm it as I was sitting in this interview and neither me or any other of the participants in the room had communicated with Bernard previously to the statement he wrote above.  The Interview was with regards to the Point of Walking in the Shoes of another to understand the extent of the Problem we face within this existent. This absolute alignment  between Bernard and the Dimensions emphasize that this is the point we must consider in our process of change, as the KEY to solve the problems, correct ourselves and this existent as a whole and accordingly, change this world to a world that is Best for all in all ways possible. 

So -

I was looking at my relationship with beggars for instance throughout my life and I found an interesting thing:

As a child, when I saw a beggar on the street, I used to feel discomfort within me,  I felt sorry for them, I could almost place them inside myself and experience what they are experiencing which was not a pleasant experience to say the least. As I grow older, I could less and less relate to these people and in a way, would disregard them when I was walking by them. I had developed a protection mechanism to not experience the experience I experienced as a child when seeing a beggar on the streets. I remember that around the age of 15, there was a big commotion around beggars in the news when an article exposed one  person disguising as a beggar and he used to beg for a living while owning a valuable house and some expensive cars. Some used this person as a scape goat to justify and excuse the invalidity of all beggars and in doing so, created the perceptions that Beggars are not really poor and in poverty but are acting like ones while being wealthy since it is easier to beg for money than making it in a decent job. I must say, I believed them and didn't question it because it was easier and comfortable for me to believe that the beggars I see on the street are not in great misery and suffer. In time, when my own justifications that I justified for myself didn't stand my own reasoning, I alter my justifications and justify it for myself by saying: "oh, don't give them money, they will use it to buy drugs". Within that justification, I made myself righteous and superior as if I know better and in the long run, by not giving them money, I support them.

In a later stage of my life, in the Spirituality phase, I justified the Existent of Beggars with Karma. However, in no point I could or wanted to place myself in the shoes of a Beggar like how I naturally did, as a child. What does it implies then? Am I Evolved or Devolved as I grow up? Unfortunately, I can say for myself that my Awareness has Devolved with no shadow of a doubt and what I could Physically aligned with as a child, as what was Here on a physical level was slowly but surely suppressed and abolish completely as I developed a "close and intimate" relationship with my mind within the belief that my mind is Me - and thus, slowly but surely, I've separated myself from the Physical.

The same principle works with Humanity - we have completely separated ourselves from our Physical alignment, from that which is here, from the Relationships that Life Consists of and Exists as. Each one of us is closed in the cell/chamber of our own mind, disregarding the Physical indications that something isn't right;  so far fetch, to a point of no relationship at all with our own human physical body and therefor, can live in our own deluded world we created in our mind, believing that this is Life, that this is real while reality is ignored and disregarded and that is what is Real. We will justify anything that would compromise our Experiences we create in our mind because we believe it to be real so much that we would not even consider of giving it up, for just a moment, to test other ways of living and co-existing with that which is really physically here.

So, it is not by chance that Desteni from the beginning stated that this process is to Rebirth ourselves from  and as the Physical. It means, to evolve ourselves in alignment to the Physical Reality so that we can directly see what is not right and what needs to be sorted out so that no one would experience on a physical level unnecessary experiences that do not support a Life that is Best/worthy.

We must get to a point where we place ourselves in the shoes of another and align ourselves to their Physical Level Experiences and in that moment we would See what needs to be done to support the being on a physical and mental level.

We cannot continue ignoring the Physical suffering that exists in this world, the suffering that none of us would like to experience for ourselves and yet, we are fine with the fact that others are constantly and continuously experiencing Suffer on a physical level.

So - I suggest listening to the Interview to have another perspective on what does it really mean to walk in the shoes of another and to understand for real the extensiveness of the Problem because unless we truly understand and accept that there is a problem that must be solved, we won't change the face of this world and more and more will continue to suffer because we couldn't Birth ourselves on a physical level to see directly what is here, what needs to be done and actually walk the solution.

Investigate the Equal Money System – and be the Key to Change the Existence of us all.

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Are we Really Hearing Each Other? Day - 321

Yesterday I had a conversation with a being that brought up some old Memories of what they Perceived I communicated with them in the past and how from that moment, they developed inside themselves a friction and conflict in relation to what they perceived that I was saying. Then, for the first time, I've Realized that we have never actually communicated with each other from the perspective of, we would always "Hear" what the other is saying from our own personality/character system that we have previously created in our mind and this personality/character is the entity that is "Hearing" and Interpreting what the other is saying according to what would serve the best the Character/Personality so that one would not question the existent of one's personality/character but instead, accept and allow the Personality/character as it is and would doom oneself to a life of misery and resentment towards others that apparently said some stuff that one had reacted to. One would repeat this conversation in one's mind and alter it until at some stage, one would be absolutely sure that these are the words the one had spoken to the extent of validating one's misinterpreted out of context words that the other had originally spoken.

 

I later on further looked at this point and I've realized that everything that I have heard throughout my life, was never an actual 'Here-ing' because I was always hearing what the other is saying from the Personalities/Characters I've accepted and allowed as the existent of myself with absolute surety that this is who I am.

This is a concerning point: the realization that we have never communicated with each other. This also explains why there is so much friction and conflict within human beings, either suppressed or expressed - we never hear anything pass our Mind and will always hear what we want to hear to maintain and sustain our personality/character we play a role in, within the belief that it is who we are.

 

This also made me realize why it is so important to not share with another our thought processes before we are clear and stable within ourselves within the trust that we would be able to direct the outflows as backchat that may emerged within another. It is imperative to first walk a point for ourselves, as ourselves, and stand with absolute clarity before we share a point with another that may influence, prolong and compromise the process they are walking.

 

I've seen that I've been sharing points that I was not yet clear within myself because I felt obligated to share it within the concept of "Friendships". Meaning, I believed that I must share myself with my friend so that they would know that I'm working with the point and that I'm doing something to sort it out and I will prove it to them by sharing with them what I've seen thus far without a real and practical direction within self responsibility for each and every dimension this one point consist of and exists as. I believed that the other won't be influenced by the points that I'm sharing if I say to them: "it's not about you, it's me, you have nothing to do with it, you are just the trigger point that activated the point within myself so don't take it personally".

I believed that this is what Friendship is all about - that one must share oneself without taking into consideration what the sharing my cause in the other human's mind because my self interest within it was to be 'Good' within the other's eyes, within a perceived presented responsibility I've taken on by working with the point of friction and conflict without realizing that sharing at this stage is an act of abdication of self responsibility as I've not placed myself in the shoes of another and how would the other process the information I'm throwing at them within their Mind personality/characterization.

 

So, this point was a good wake up call for me to redefine the nature of Friendship that I've created as a Script I must live as, as if how I've structured what friendship is within my mind is the Moral code I must follow and cherish. It was also a good reminder for myself to always walk in the shoes of another when and as speaking with another to assess and measure in absolute awareness if I'm able to direct each point that would result and/or manifest from me sharing information/realizations and within this, where the other being is in their process and whether or not what I'm sharing would be destructive or supportive in a given moment.

 

Thus, I commit myself to place a guard in front of my mind, a guard that is me as the directive principle in breath by breath Awareness, before I speak. In this, I commit myself to walk my process of correction to understand my own mind and thus, understanding others' mind within the realization that all minds are exactly the same in its functioning with the only change of the outfit each one dresses their Personalities/characters. Within this, I commit myself to place myself in the other shoes, to see who they are for real within all the relationships one have with one's mind and accordingly, assess the words I speak and express myself in a way that would be the best support possible. I see, realize and understand that unless that is applied in absolute self honesty, the words I speak can be destructive and poisoned and thus, would be the words that would compromise another, when and as the words I speak are the words I speak to fulfil my self interest desire to achieve a specific outcome that would serve me as a character I've accepted and allowed as me instead of standing as an expression of myself, as a living words, applied in every moment of breath. 

Is it possible to Cheat yourself? Day 185

This is a continuation to:

Copy Paste Character - the Way for Success? - Day 183

Copy Paste Character - The Education System - Day 184

 

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to Program myself deliberately as a consumer, always looking and seeking for the quick fix, the short cut in having things done, so that I could get MORE in LESS time within the common belief that MORE is what we should be seeking after, MORE is what we must become and through having MORE and MORE and MORE we will be successful and be seen as achievers by our environment and they would respect us and see us as superior not ever seeing, realizing and understanding that while rushing through within the journey to be and have MORE, we are missing the very BASIC more of what we could have be and become if we were to stop seeking for MORE and actually Participate with the Physical reality, Breath by Breath, in HEREness of and as Equality and Oneness and in that, Be in fact MORE than what we have become as a limited version of ourselves as our minds but rather, Live as Physical respectful of LIFE human beings.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself, from an inferior starting point, to look for the short cut and the quick fix because I believed I cannot walk to my full potential unless I achieve something that is visible that could be respected by others whom would validate me for my achievement and thus, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself through looking for the validation and appreciations of others, to use the short cuts and in doing so, diminish myself so completely as I've not accepted and allowed myself to walk my life, breath by breath within the inner self realization that there is only so much one can do in each and every breath and one should focus on making the best out of each and every breath instead of brushing off what one does within the starting point of pleasing others so that they could validate self as self beliefs that one cannot validate oneself unless someone else validate self.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to disrespect myself within accepting and allowing myself to direct myself within and as the starting point of brushing stuff off, looking for short cuts, seeking for the quick fix and I haven't accepted and allowed myself to realize that within accepting this starting point through having a projected idea of who and what I should be and in that - being a specific person according to my eye's views as soon as possible, I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to Stand HERE, BREATHE and directly see ME, in absolute Self Awareness, and accordingly make aware decisions that are based on a principle of what is best for all and in that, walking my decisions, breath by breath as to my utmost potential as who I am within what I do.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to miss a breath when looking for the quick fix and the short cut to achieve my desires that I've created within and as my mind and in missing a breath, I have accepted and allowed myself to project the idea of what I require to do for me to be validated, appreciated by others so that I could be worthy in my eye's view once I'm worthy according to others eye's view.

 

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see the consequences of the accumulation effect of taking more and more upon myself within the starting point of being MORE to other people so that they could respect, validate and appreciate me and then, when it comes to the point of having more things to do then what is possible to do within the space time breath by breath application, I looked for the short cuts to have my assignments done, not seeing, realizing and understanding that within that cycle that I've created for myself, I've compromised and sabotaged myself and others as not walking my assignment according to the utmost potential it can be done when walking each and every step in breath by breath.

 

 

My Life as a Character - Overview - Day 79

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to REALize that I'm the creator of instantaneously characters which all of them has ONE purpose, to keep me in character.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to create myself as a dimensional character that create more dimensional characters that creates more characters for one single purpose - to create more character and within that, I've enslaved myself for eternity, always creating characters separated from me, not Realizing the power of my creation that is bigger from me as the creator because I created character to create character while all along, I was the character that created character. So who am i? a character?

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to understand creation because I forgot that I've created myself as a character that created the character that forgot that I'm a character. Isn't it a nice stupidity loop?

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself, as the creator of all the character to remind myself  that I'm the creator of the characters that I've created in separation of me and because I haven't created a character to remind myself that I've created me as a character, I doomed myself for eternity.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see my responsibility as the creator wherein I've created all the relationships to support me as a character to not see the power I have as the creator that can create LIFE because I created an agreement with all the characters to support me to remain in character and have thus, enslaved us all, looping between all the characters moment by moment, breath by breath until we remember creation and create ourselves as Life .

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to believe that I'm the characters/personalities because I forgot that I've created these characters/personalities and I haven't considered that as the powerful creator of an eternal enslavement, I can delete the characters and freely choose, in self honesty, to step out of character and clear up the mess that I've created in character.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that I've accepted and gave permission to other characters to resists change and to thus, do what they can to sabotage and limit my own self change because that is how I made sure that I won't change. Within that, I see, realize and understand how I've created resistance, how I gave power to resistance because I created resistance to protect me from an actual change.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to create a character that fear stepping out of character because I know that I created characters that will attack and hurt my character because I fuck up with their characters. Thus, I realize that the conflicts, attacks and harms are all characters that I've created and I commit myself to stand in the face of what may come, prepared, in self trust, Here. And I realize that within that statement, I've created a character and thus I stop.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to look at the thought, realize that the thought was a character, to then find out that it was a character that realized that the thought was a character because I have now created a memory of the "realization" which I now let go, return to my human physical body and in an instantaneously moment, I create another character as a thought comes up and the cycle looping itself. So I keep reminding myself that I've created myself as character and I stop, and I realized that I created the character that reminds me that I've created a character until I step out of all the characters and no longer require character to remind myself that I'm a character.

I commit myself to support myself in seeing, releasing, deleting and clearing the mess that I've created in characters

I commit myself to keep reminding myself to step out of character when and as I see myself accessing a character and within that, I let go self judgement when I see that I'm still a character because I realized that self judgement is another character that I've created.

I commit myself to remind myself that I've created a character the remind myself that I'm a character to assist and support myself with stepping out of all my characters until I'm no longer creating a character of stepping out of character.

I commit myself to clear up the mess that I've created as characters and stand in the face of each and every character, forgive myself as the character and let it go.

I commit myself to show that character is being created instantaneously when a thought comes up, a memory has now been created as an experience that the memory has created as it created me. And within that, we are eternally fucked until we step out of character by cleaning that mess that we have created in character. 

 

Illusion Reality vs. the Physical Reality - Day 3

Day 3

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT seen how I’m building up energy within me through projecting myself into the future in my mind, in expectation to get something or someone, and thus, when the moment that I’ve been waiting for comes and the physical reality doesn’t meet with my mind reality, the energy drops and I access depression.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to take for granted that I sometimes experience depression and low energy because I’m only human and in that, I’ve abdicated the responsibility to investigate and introspect how and why I’ve accepted and allowed myself to exists within and as an energetic polarity design of low/high energy.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to live in my mind through a future projection alternate reality that I’ve created for myself where I could experience myself happy and fulfil if the physical reality will meet with my alternate reality and in doing so, I’ve missed and blind myself to see and face what is ‘Here’ through supressing that which I’ve become while making sure that I will always be occupied in my mind.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed self judgement when my alternate reality in my mind didn’t meet the physical reality and instead of facing myself, I’ve suppressed and moved on to the next alternate creation in my mind. in doing so, I’ve abdicated the responsibility of physically and practically exists Here, in my human physical body and direct myself effectively in order to get myself out of the mind, into my self.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself by not even being attentive and aware that I’m accessing depression and thus, when I was asked what is up with me today, I’ve ignored it and made up excuses that even I believed myself so that I won’t have to see and face that which I’ve accepted and allowed myself to exists as and thus, continued creating alternate reality for myself when and as the previous alternate reality that I’ve created and build up for months didn’t meet the physical reality.

I commit myself to – When someone asked me what is up with me today because I’m not “myself”, to take a moment and investigate where I am and what I’ve accepted and allowed myself to participate with. When and as I see myself making quick excuses, I stop, I breathe, and I direct myself to sort out and face that which is here.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself through creating alternate realities in my mind as a coping mechanism, to not face the actuality of myself that present itself in the physical reality and in that, I’ve NOT taken the responsibility to walk, face and correct myself in every moment of every breath.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to become emotional when and as my alternate reality that I’ve created in my mind as a future projection didn’t met the physical reality and in doing so, I’ve not seen and realized that what I’m actually participating with is energy polarity where as long as I project myself in my mind into the future, I’m experiencing high and positive energy and when the physical reality doesn’t meet the alternate reality, I’m accessing  low and negative energy.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to see that the alternate reality/fantasy that I’m creating in my mind as future projection is an illusion and in no way physical and real and within that, I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to live HERE and FACE myself here through running away to the fantasy/illusion domain in my mind as well as missing an opportunity to transcend a point, to breathe myself  through and direct myself and my world according to principle on oneness and equality.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to live in an illusion/fantasy domain in my mind, to suppress and hide the actuality of myself and in that, I’ve not allowed myself to get to know myself as who I am, and I haven’t allowed myself the opportunity to get myself back Here through facing me in every moment, direct, correct and change.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself through the participation in the alternate/fantasy/illusion domain that I’ve created and lived in my mind.

I forgive myself that I’ve NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that in essence relationships and sex are a distraction wherein, instead of focusing on myself and my alignment with myself, I’m existing in my mind, creating illusions/fantasies/alternate reality and completely miss that which is HERE as me and in doing so, not only I’m sabotaging and compromising myself, I’m also sabotaging and compromising this world because, until I won’t align myself to myself, and stand in stability in every moment of every breathe, I will not direct myself as this world into a world that is best for all since that which I’m allowing within, I’m allowing without.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to ALWAYS have something or someone to project myself towards through participating and creating a fantasy in my mind so that I won’t have to face myself and that which I’ve allowed myself to be and become and thus, I forgive myself that I’ve never seen that I’m participating in this pattern so that I won’t have to face myself in my immediate environment and actually/practically/physically correct and change myself.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to – When focusing and creating alternate/illusionary/fantasy reality, I’ve abdicated my responsibility towards all that is here as myself and this world.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to abdicated my responsibility to assist and support me to step out of my own mind, into the physical reality by focusing only on one point that is based on fear and self interest through living and existing in my mind, creating and developing alternate/illusionary/fantasy reality that keeps me occupied and busy in my mind and in that, I’m missing a breath, missing the physical world and compromising myself, my process and this world.

I commit myself to – When and as I see myself accessing my mind into a projected alternate/fantasy/illusion reality, I stop! I bring myself back here, to and as my human physical body and stabilize myself.

I commit myself to – When and as I see myself going into my mind and looking for the next man to focus on, I stop, I breathe and I direct myself to NOT follow the thoughts. I realize that I’ve done so thus far, to keep myself occupied in my mind so that I won’t have to face and correct myself and actually change who and what I have become.

I commit myself to stop the pattern of always having something or someone occupying me in my mind and become the directive principle of myself and my world.

I commit myself to focus on my alignment of myself so that in every moment of every breath, I will direct and move myself in stability, self trust and self respect, in the utmost effective way, according to principle of what is best for all.

I commit myself to myself – to NOT accept and allow myself to follow my mind into alternate/fantasy/illusion future projection that distract me from what is Here and thus, I commit myself to focus on stepping out of my own mind into the physical reality.