The Bully Project - Day 397

 

 

We send our children to school with trust that the system will take care of them, protect them, support them and be the pillar they required for the child's effective development. The thing is - we know by now that we can no longer trust the system to take care of our children and yet, we let our children down with our lack of responsibility in creating and accepting a system that do not stand by the value it should serve - the Value of Dignity, Harmony, Protection, Support and Respect.

 

The Bully Project documentary is a fraction of what is really going on within the Child's experiences at schools. It doesn't matter if your child is one of the most popular kids at school, or if your child is the weirdo that no one wants to play with - All children nowadays are exposed to abuse either done to them or by them. I do not know anyone that at some point wasn't part in abusive act or have been exposed to abuse done to them by their peers and yet - even though we know what we have done in our schooling years and we know what was done to us, we do not do everything possible to correct the patterns and prevent experiences that should never be experienced by anyone.

 

What happened to us? Why can we not see that this abusive system is a reflection of what we accept and allow within ourselves, our lives and our children's life? Why are we accepting and allowing a system that support abusive behaviours towards our children? Where did our children learn this destructive behaviour if not from us, those who suppose to be the ones that stand as an example for our children?

 

You see, the consequences are already here and some of the consequences cannot be fixed at this stage but it can be prevented from now on with effective parenting support; It can be prevented if us parents will fill our duty of being the ones responsible for the children in all facets; It can be prevented if us parents stand up and firstly, take responsibility for what we are accepting and allowing to exists within our minds that is then thus projected as the value system the children will pick up and become as the duplicated copy of ourselves. 

 

Understand that your children sees you as a role model and if you are not standing as what is best for all as role model, you cannot expect your child to be effective in this world, to succeed, to become a better human being. We can not expect the children to be something we cannot be ourselves.

So, a decision must be made - will you allow random events to shape the future of your children or will you take a stand and do everything possible to first make sure that you are the best example you can be and accordingly, educate your child to be a being that is walking only through the principle of that which is best for all lives?

Psychological Experiments and Accountability - Day 341

 

Continuing with the Question Who is Responsible for our Children's Education?

 

Within this blog, we will explore an interesting point that opened up for me when I saw the documentary: The Angry Eye: Jane Elliot. Here one should note that I will be utilizing the documentary as an example to describe a concerning phenomena that exists within various Psychology Experiments.

 

'The Divided Class' and 'The Angry Eye' are Documentaries describing Experiments done to expose, reveal and show the extent of Racism through an experience of how it feels like to be at the receiving end of Racism. 

 

While the goal of the experiment is to give people a sense of empathy and morality with those who are the victims of our consequential world system that accept and allow Racism to exists, performing such experiments is done without taking into consideration the long term effects on the participants. Thus, despite the starting point that may be perceived to be sincere, according to my eye's view, the way, or this solution as in how it is being done is not acceptable as in some cases, even if only in rare cases, the mental and physical consequences may be detrimental.

 

Here is a description of the Blue/Brown eye experiment: http://www.janeelliott.com/workshop.htm

 

The trinity relationship between the Mind, the Physical and the Beingness is not yet fully understood in this world and without that crucial understanding, we cannot anticipate what may be the consequences and the outflows of such Mind experiments. From my perspective, even if the physical and/or mental harm is rare, the potential of physical/mental harm invalidate the performance of such Mind experiments. 

 

Let me explain: In this specific experiments, the participant are exposed to abuse/bullying from the starting point of giving them the impression of what does it feels to be at the receiving end of Racism. 

The participants are not used to or have been exposed to such abuse/bullying throughout their lives and therefore, for some, the first encounter with abusive/bullying experience can be a shocking.

 

(In the blog series The correction Process and the Desteni Message I went into details regarding what Programming is and how we have programmed ourselves throughout our lives. So if you haven't already, I suggest reading the blogs through to understand the following points)

 

When one for the first time face a shocking experience, an experience that is far fetched from anything they have personally seen or experienced before, one would not have a 'manual' or a 'guideline' within their mind of 'how to' cope with these kinds of scenarios, how to behave, how to move, how to react.

 

Thus, when one is being exposed to a shocking experience where the mind doesn't have a prepared script of how to move through the experience, in some cases mental/self relationship consequence can evolve when the full extent of the mind is not understood and the experimenter doesn’t know all the info of how an experiment will be deal with by a person’s mind and how it would/could affect them in a myriad of ways later in life.

 

Our understanding of the Quantum Mind and the Physical Quantum Mind is so limited that we cannot even see the outflows and probabilities that such Psychological experiment may result with and as the Human Consciousness becoming more and more unpredictable, if we continue with such experiments without understanding what we are actually doing, the chances that such experiments would lead to more and more consequences that we wished we have prevented afterwards. 

 

Thus, I suggest working with the principle of Prevention as the best cure from the perspective of -

Although ending Racism in this world is an honourable and respectful consideration, the experiment is not the solution; if it was, Racism will be no more isn't it?

 

So in the future, I will open up the point of Racism and how it may change already within the implantation of the Equal Money System but for now, bear in mind that the ultimate solution is a solution that is encompassing in terms of both on the individual level and the world system level. Thus, here is 2 points to consider in the meanwhile:

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The Equal Money System is the platform from which each human in this world could start their process of self change/correction once the Fear of Survival will no longer dictate the way we live our lives, the way we behave, they way we think and so forth. Within that, our education system will be based on principle of Give as you would like to receive and Do unto another as you would like to be done unto you which from there, a new generation of perfected human being would slowly but surely start to emerged. So, interesting times ahead, prepare yourself...

How to Cope with the Death of a Pet? - Day 248

So.. Babitjie is no longer here in his Physical Form. We found him yesterday, powerless, helplessness and almost lifeless. The vet identified Kidney Failure and after 24 hours of no change, it was decided to put him down.

 

I'm working with the point of Emotional turmoil in relation to this point because I developed a relationship connection with Babitjie specifically during the last year. I learnt a lot about Cats from observing him, playing with him, being with him. Babitjie inhabited my room a while back and was my roommate if you will. His Expression was very specific and I enjoyed him a lot. He did have a down side when his Evil Nature came up from time to time, bullying other cats, he was like a kid, bullying in the outside but inferior from the inside. Lol, when ever there was a lightning storm he would go and be so close to me, like a baby that scared from laud noises. 

 

Anyway, what I'm looking at is the relationship creation and connection that I have formed with Babitjie, not long after I had to give away my dog, Yalda, when I decided to move to the farm. Giving her away was the difficult decision I have ever faced and it took me a while before I was ready to connect again with another animal because the thought of having to leave behind another animal was unbearable.

 

But Babitjie, didn't consider my mind fuck and simply decided for me :-)  Which was also interesting thing back then because I didn't like cats before I encounter Babitjie which through him, I could changed my entire perspective on cats, their expression and thus, experience enjoyable moments with them.

 

What I can already see is lots of self judgement for even allowing myself to cry and be sad for the lose of Babitjie's expression that I will no longer enjoy simply because his expression is unique to him and he is no longer here. but also, the crying is due to a few mind fucks that I can see through walking the SF process that I started walking before he was put down: (Note: when I wrote "no longer part of my direct environment" what I meant is that either the pet is dead or not part of my life any more like for instance with Yalda that is perfectly healthy and taken cared for doesn't live with me anymore)

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to distract myself with Emotional turmoil when and as a Pet that I developed a relationship connection with is no longer part of my direct and immediate environment and thus, accepted and allowed myself to focus on my negative experience instead of investigating the starting point of my relationship with the pet and within that, what is it that I perceive myself as lacking which the pet gave me and now that point of giving is gone.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to judge myself and be hard on myself for crying when finding out about a pet, that I developed a relationship connection with, has to be put down due to a severe health condition and within that, what I have not seen, realized and understood was that suppressing what I'm experiencing is not the solution. Instead, to realize that a pet has a specific and unique expression that will no longer express itself in the form that they were and thus, this expression that was part of my day to day Life is no longer exists and missing this expression without attaching emotional energetic charge to it, is valid. What is not valid is to attach the energetic charge to it as if a part of me is now gone because I'm here, same as yesterday, breathing, healthy, directive. 

 

Changing the form Life takes on does not change Life - Life remains the same. So, whether the Life is a sperm or an egg, or whether it is ‘merged’ or ‘fused’ into a new being – that new being is not a ‘new’ Life Form. It’s just Life in a new form, but it’s the same Life. (Economics Journey To Life - Day 156: Honoring the Right to Life in an Equal Money System)

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to NOT realize that LIFE isn't gone when the pet is gone, but the experience I've created within and as myself in relationship with the pet is no longer exists. Within that, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that when a being dies, it is not life that dies, it is still Life but in a new form.

 

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to investigate the emotions that I experience when a pet that I was connected to is no longer part of my Physical an direct environment and within that, justify to myself that the Experience is Valid because we had a Special relationship connection, we read each other, we were aligned with each other and thus, within that justification, not considering the Common Sense point that - the Relationship is an Experience I've created within and as myself because if that was real, I should have been able to develop the same kind of relationship with any being on earth. This is then thus why, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see in self honesty that the starting point of developing such 'Unique' Relationship with a pet is due to how I am perceiving myself as lacking which is something that the pet can give me. And thus, when the pet is gone, and the condition is now no longer exists wherein, the pet cannot give me what I wanted them to give me, I access Sadness, Fear, and sorrow. In this, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that the Emotions that I feel when a pet is no longer here, are emotions that derive from my self interest starting point of worrying that the Experience I Perceived the Pet to give me, will cease to exists.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the Pet, within my own self interest desire to keep them around, to keep the experience I perceive they give me and thus, do what ever it takes to "save" them however within this, I haven't consider the pet, I haven't communicate with them, asking them for their preference in dying or staying in this physical reality, not seeing the consequential outflows of us insisting to keep them alive, and the life that they would have if we would to succeed keeping them for a little bit longer. What we can see here is that our desire and need to keep a being alive is for and as our own self interest starting point with no real consideration for the pets themselves which then, the question we must ask ourselves - do our pets are our slaves? Beings that we are taking care for so that we can have an experience within our relationship with them? or is it a practical common sense wherein - there is an animal here, the animal require support and I am in a position of giving the animal the support the animal required. Within this, I may enjoy the Animal Expression but it doesn't mean that I need to create an energetic experience towards this expression because, who I am, is  not dependent on other beings expression, who I am is not dependent on the presence of other beings in my world. Sure, it's cool to have beings in my environment but whether they are physically here or not is irrelevant because it is only through the mind wherein what is gone is the relationship that I had created with them, in separation of myself to sustain my experience I perceive myself to have when I'm in their presence.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to raise a pet as a slave for me to have an experience in my relationship with them and within that, taking care of them, so that my Experience slave won't leave me and if they do, I would immediate replace them with another Slave that would give me the same experience, not considering to investigate the nature of the experience, why I require to have this experience from the first place and Can I transform to slave/master relationship to Equal and One relationship, not only with the pets but with all living creatures on earth.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to access past memory experiences with the Pet that is no longer here, to give me a positive experience that would justify the Negative Experience that I accessed to within the belief that the pet is no longer 'Here'. In this, I forgive myself that instead of utilizing the past memory experience as a tool to investigate my own acceptance and allowance, the starting point of getting to know how and why I created an entity as a relationship connection between me and the pet, seeing what is it that I perceived myself as lacking which the pet can give me.

 

I will keep on investigating the relationship between Human beings and the Manifested consequences such as Animals health conditions and show why it is that the death of the animals on earth has to do with Human Intervention.

I will also have a look at what it is that I perceive myself as lacking which I require an animal to provide me with and within that, why have I accepted and allowed myself to enslave animals for my own inner happiness in total separation from myself and the animal. In this, I assist and support myself to develop equal and one relationship with animals instead of Slave/Mastery relationship.

And finally but important nevertheless is how I accepted and allowed myself to create relationship connection with one or two animals and I haven't been able to develop relationships with all beings. In this, why it is that I feel sad and emotionally charged when a pet I had a relationship with dies and yet, not considering or regarding all the animals and humans that dies every single moment.