Place yourself in the Shoes of Another to Understand the Extent of the Problem - Day 322

This is a continuation to my Previous blog: Are we Really Hearing with Each Other? Day - 321 where I shared the Problems that I've seen within human beings communication and within that, how we are not only Hearing each others as we Hear others through our Personality/Character we believe is ourselves but also, we are not considering the others when we share/speak with them that which is in our minds and in this, what we perceive to be a valid point to share, may lead to consequences and outflows that is out of our ability to direct, assist and support since what we shared, had already birth a dimension/layer within the other being Minds and thus, had created unnecessary friction and conflict within and as themselves. From here, they would have to have to live and face the consequences and thus it would prolong their process of self change because we abdicated our responsibility of walking in the shoes of another when and as we share a point/thought with another through our irresponsible and inconsideration of who the other is in one's totality because we didn't stand as the Directive principle, as the Living Words, as Breath, in a moment of communication with another, as a Pillar of support.

Within this blog, I will take this a step further into the world system so that we can see, realize and understand that the core/source of the world problem exists within and as our self interest human nature that hear ONLY oneself, only what Self wants to hear, will speak what Self wants to Speak and will act according to what Self believe to be valid according to one's Belief system that one had accepted and allowed as oneself. In this, One would never dare to walk in the shoes of another because then one would have to take responsibility and sort out the problem and in that, would force oneself to step out of one's comfort zone.

"...Engage the problem to understand the problem. Place yourself in all positions to gain a multi dimensional understanding. Observe where you have an interest you want to protect and why you want to protect it and justify your position. For instance – with money – place yourself with little money having to buy food and educate your children, then increase the money and see how your choices change –and then have a lot and see how you change – and then have equal money –enough for all and see why it is you are unable to give to others, yet you want for yourself – why this need to be better exist when it is not based in reality, but rather in an obsession to judge others, in an obsessive idea of inequality that makes you fear others will abuse you if there is equality – then find it in you to correct yourself to transcend the fears that you use to justify inequality –remembering the various conditions you have experienced through your imagination –now you have learned an effective way to use imagination—to understand how others live, without you having to go through it directly –make this experience valuable by changing that within you that cause others to suffer and then you will experience enlightenment and the world will become a better place when you make sure your experience that you integrate of a world where all have enough, becomes the world system in education, economics, education, politics, healthcare –we all have the capacity to teach ourselves –once we have removed our own justifications and fear of others as equals.."  

Bernard Poolman.

Fascinating enough, Bernard wrote this statement a few hours after an EQAFE interview was done,

The Crucifixion of Jesus - Part 28, an interview Bernard had no idea of its content, or that it was even done and I personally can confirm it as I was sitting in this interview and neither me or any other of the participants in the room had communicated with Bernard previously to the statement he wrote above.  The Interview was with regards to the Point of Walking in the Shoes of another to understand the extent of the Problem we face within this existent. This absolute alignment  between Bernard and the Dimensions emphasize that this is the point we must consider in our process of change, as the KEY to solve the problems, correct ourselves and this existent as a whole and accordingly, change this world to a world that is Best for all in all ways possible. 

So -

I was looking at my relationship with beggars for instance throughout my life and I found an interesting thing:

As a child, when I saw a beggar on the street, I used to feel discomfort within me,  I felt sorry for them, I could almost place them inside myself and experience what they are experiencing which was not a pleasant experience to say the least. As I grow older, I could less and less relate to these people and in a way, would disregard them when I was walking by them. I had developed a protection mechanism to not experience the experience I experienced as a child when seeing a beggar on the streets. I remember that around the age of 15, there was a big commotion around beggars in the news when an article exposed one  person disguising as a beggar and he used to beg for a living while owning a valuable house and some expensive cars. Some used this person as a scape goat to justify and excuse the invalidity of all beggars and in doing so, created the perceptions that Beggars are not really poor and in poverty but are acting like ones while being wealthy since it is easier to beg for money than making it in a decent job. I must say, I believed them and didn't question it because it was easier and comfortable for me to believe that the beggars I see on the street are not in great misery and suffer. In time, when my own justifications that I justified for myself didn't stand my own reasoning, I alter my justifications and justify it for myself by saying: "oh, don't give them money, they will use it to buy drugs". Within that justification, I made myself righteous and superior as if I know better and in the long run, by not giving them money, I support them.

In a later stage of my life, in the Spirituality phase, I justified the Existent of Beggars with Karma. However, in no point I could or wanted to place myself in the shoes of a Beggar like how I naturally did, as a child. What does it implies then? Am I Evolved or Devolved as I grow up? Unfortunately, I can say for myself that my Awareness has Devolved with no shadow of a doubt and what I could Physically aligned with as a child, as what was Here on a physical level was slowly but surely suppressed and abolish completely as I developed a "close and intimate" relationship with my mind within the belief that my mind is Me - and thus, slowly but surely, I've separated myself from the Physical.

The same principle works with Humanity - we have completely separated ourselves from our Physical alignment, from that which is here, from the Relationships that Life Consists of and Exists as. Each one of us is closed in the cell/chamber of our own mind, disregarding the Physical indications that something isn't right;  so far fetch, to a point of no relationship at all with our own human physical body and therefor, can live in our own deluded world we created in our mind, believing that this is Life, that this is real while reality is ignored and disregarded and that is what is Real. We will justify anything that would compromise our Experiences we create in our mind because we believe it to be real so much that we would not even consider of giving it up, for just a moment, to test other ways of living and co-existing with that which is really physically here.

So, it is not by chance that Desteni from the beginning stated that this process is to Rebirth ourselves from  and as the Physical. It means, to evolve ourselves in alignment to the Physical Reality so that we can directly see what is not right and what needs to be sorted out so that no one would experience on a physical level unnecessary experiences that do not support a Life that is Best/worthy.

We must get to a point where we place ourselves in the shoes of another and align ourselves to their Physical Level Experiences and in that moment we would See what needs to be done to support the being on a physical and mental level.

We cannot continue ignoring the Physical suffering that exists in this world, the suffering that none of us would like to experience for ourselves and yet, we are fine with the fact that others are constantly and continuously experiencing Suffer on a physical level.

So - I suggest listening to the Interview to have another perspective on what does it really mean to walk in the shoes of another and to understand for real the extensiveness of the Problem because unless we truly understand and accept that there is a problem that must be solved, we won't change the face of this world and more and more will continue to suffer because we couldn't Birth ourselves on a physical level to see directly what is here, what needs to be done and actually walk the solution.

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Are we Really Hearing Each Other? Day - 321

Yesterday I had a conversation with a being that brought up some old Memories of what they Perceived I communicated with them in the past and how from that moment, they developed inside themselves a friction and conflict in relation to what they perceived that I was saying. Then, for the first time, I've Realized that we have never actually communicated with each other from the perspective of, we would always "Hear" what the other is saying from our own personality/character system that we have previously created in our mind and this personality/character is the entity that is "Hearing" and Interpreting what the other is saying according to what would serve the best the Character/Personality so that one would not question the existent of one's personality/character but instead, accept and allow the Personality/character as it is and would doom oneself to a life of misery and resentment towards others that apparently said some stuff that one had reacted to. One would repeat this conversation in one's mind and alter it until at some stage, one would be absolutely sure that these are the words the one had spoken to the extent of validating one's misinterpreted out of context words that the other had originally spoken.

 

I later on further looked at this point and I've realized that everything that I have heard throughout my life, was never an actual 'Here-ing' because I was always hearing what the other is saying from the Personalities/Characters I've accepted and allowed as the existent of myself with absolute surety that this is who I am.

This is a concerning point: the realization that we have never communicated with each other. This also explains why there is so much friction and conflict within human beings, either suppressed or expressed - we never hear anything pass our Mind and will always hear what we want to hear to maintain and sustain our personality/character we play a role in, within the belief that it is who we are.

 

This also made me realize why it is so important to not share with another our thought processes before we are clear and stable within ourselves within the trust that we would be able to direct the outflows as backchat that may emerged within another. It is imperative to first walk a point for ourselves, as ourselves, and stand with absolute clarity before we share a point with another that may influence, prolong and compromise the process they are walking.

 

I've seen that I've been sharing points that I was not yet clear within myself because I felt obligated to share it within the concept of "Friendships". Meaning, I believed that I must share myself with my friend so that they would know that I'm working with the point and that I'm doing something to sort it out and I will prove it to them by sharing with them what I've seen thus far without a real and practical direction within self responsibility for each and every dimension this one point consist of and exists as. I believed that the other won't be influenced by the points that I'm sharing if I say to them: "it's not about you, it's me, you have nothing to do with it, you are just the trigger point that activated the point within myself so don't take it personally".

I believed that this is what Friendship is all about - that one must share oneself without taking into consideration what the sharing my cause in the other human's mind because my self interest within it was to be 'Good' within the other's eyes, within a perceived presented responsibility I've taken on by working with the point of friction and conflict without realizing that sharing at this stage is an act of abdication of self responsibility as I've not placed myself in the shoes of another and how would the other process the information I'm throwing at them within their Mind personality/characterization.

 

So, this point was a good wake up call for me to redefine the nature of Friendship that I've created as a Script I must live as, as if how I've structured what friendship is within my mind is the Moral code I must follow and cherish. It was also a good reminder for myself to always walk in the shoes of another when and as speaking with another to assess and measure in absolute awareness if I'm able to direct each point that would result and/or manifest from me sharing information/realizations and within this, where the other being is in their process and whether or not what I'm sharing would be destructive or supportive in a given moment.

 

Thus, I commit myself to place a guard in front of my mind, a guard that is me as the directive principle in breath by breath Awareness, before I speak. In this, I commit myself to walk my process of correction to understand my own mind and thus, understanding others' mind within the realization that all minds are exactly the same in its functioning with the only change of the outfit each one dresses their Personalities/characters. Within this, I commit myself to place myself in the other shoes, to see who they are for real within all the relationships one have with one's mind and accordingly, assess the words I speak and express myself in a way that would be the best support possible. I see, realize and understand that unless that is applied in absolute self honesty, the words I speak can be destructive and poisoned and thus, would be the words that would compromise another, when and as the words I speak are the words I speak to fulfil my self interest desire to achieve a specific outcome that would serve me as a character I've accepted and allowed as me instead of standing as an expression of myself, as a living words, applied in every moment of breath. 

Investigating Sexual Expression - Self Commitments - Part 2 - Day 123

This is a continuation to:

Sexual Expression – Overview  Day 112

Investigating Sexual Expression - Self Forgiveness Part 1 - Day 113

Investigating Sexual Expression - Self Commitments - Part 1 - Day 114

 

Investigating Sexual Expression - Part 2 - Day 121

Investigating Sexual Expression - Self Forgiveness - Part 2 - Day 122

 

 

I commit myself to SHOW that the definitions/connotations/associations that we have attached to words are the exact definitions/connotations/associations that our parents had attached and accordingly, we are passing, generation after generation a language that is based on absolute separation and in this, make sure that no one in fact stand as equal and one as the Living Words as that which is best for all.

 

I commit myself to show that the language that we have taught to speak is taint with Definitions as FEARS and through this, we create our FEARful reality because we haven't realize that we are in fact the Living Words and accordingly, when the words are separated from who we are and are based on fear, our creation as this world would be equal to the one as the living words and to change this world, we must change ourselves as the living words and in this, to redefine, explore, investigate each and every word and transform the word to that which is best for all so that we can create a world that is best for all and to ensure our best for all creation, we will pass on to our children the language that is based on Principle of Oneness and Equality as the living words, as ourselves.

 

I commit myself to take part of the establishment and development of Designing Mathematical Bio-grammatical Structures to Assist in the Re-definition of Words in Specific Detail to Always Result in Outcomes that are Best for All Life.

http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/08/day-116-re-defining-words-to-living.html

 

I commit myself to be attentive and aware to any physical changes/movements within and as my human physical body because I now see, realize and understand that those changes/movements are automated and activated through the words that I speak/hear and in that, I realized that when and as I'm reacting mentally and physically to words, I'm in that moment had abdicated my directive principle within and as the breath because I've not moved/changed/react as a self movement awareness, here, but rather automated my movement in separation of me and allowed the mind to take over and dictate me how to feel/react/move.

 

I commit myself to SHOW and Explain in details, as many times as necessary Why and How the words that we are living are polarized within and as Negative or Positive Charge and in this, Why it is so important that we would walk the redefining process of each and every Word we speak, Positive as well as Negative, to make sure we are no longer dictated by the experience of a words but rather a human living physical human being that are equal to and one as the living Words.

 

I commit myself to SHOW how and why we have been programmed and brainwashed by the Media to live a Life of self interest, where we seek for an experience in separation of ourselves and our world and have not realized, seen or understood that in essence, our self interest desire for an experience is to hide/cover/ignore our FEARS that we have deliberately created ourselves, to remain slaves to our own minds and accordingly, we have created the Media to support with our enslavement processes and to never in fact create a world/Life that is best for all.

 

I commit myself to SHOW in writings and vlogging How and Why FEAR and LOVE are the opposite Polarity of each other, Why and how we have created Love to Hide/Ignore/Cover our FEARS, Why and how we have created ourselves in FEAR; and Why and How, every decision we make and have made was ALWAYS based on Fears.

What is Important? Self Forgiveness - Day 87

This is a continuation to my blog:

What is Important? - Day 86

 I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to define/connect/attach the word 'importance' within and as a polarity characters that I've played within and as myself, in separation of myself and thus, I haven't allowed myself to redefined the word within and as a principle of oneness and equality wherein, I'm able to stand as the living word for eternity. Thus, I see, realize and understand the importance of redefining words, to purify myself as the definition/associations/definitions that I've attached to words and to NOT accept and allow myself to create characters according to definitions that I've given to words in separation of myself.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to believe and perceive that I must become important, that I must be defined by others as important because otherwise, I have defined myself as having no value, being unworthy in comparison to others, not realizing that I cannot be more than who I am. Within that, I haven't realized that from the beginning, the desire to be more was the point where we have accepted and allowed ourselves to manifest ourselves as less than who we are as LIFE which led to the consequences of us separating ourselves from Life as Who we are. For Context, please read: The First Creation of Character - day 79.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to abdicate my responsibility of redefining each and every word and to thus, create myself as the living word within and as the principle of Oneness and Equality because I haven't realized, seen and understood how through attaching/defining/connecting values to words, in separation of myself, I create myself as a character, Equal and One as the impure words and unless I walk the LIVING word within and as the principle of ONENESS and EQUALITY, I will keep on creating myself as characters as words. Thus, the process of redefining words, to purify the words is Important: downloading the Living word as LIFE into the existing programming of us as character, so that we could step out of character and stand up together, as the living word and create LIFE, practically and physically; Life that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see how through ONE impure word, I've accepted and allowed myself to create a network of characters which best suit me in that moment and thus, I moved myself from the Comparison Character to the Jealousy Character to the Spiteful Character and etc, without realizing the infinite cycle of stupidity as what I have accepted and allowed myself to live within and as myself.

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see, realize and understand our EQUAL importance because we have all existed within and as the desire to be MORE than each other and have thus, abdicated our responsibility to in fact, walk our responsibility to download the program of LIFE to the current/existence program so that from this moment onwards, all will have the possibility to realize ourselves as LIFE, stand up as LIFE, and together as LIFE, create LIFE that is best for all.

I commit myself to redefine each and every word until me as the living word is Purified within and as the principle of oneness and equality as I stand for eternity, as the living word, equal to and one as who I am, as LIFE that is best for all.

I commit myself to - when and as I see a movement within and as myself, as the creation of another dimension as character that will suit me best in any given moment, I stop, I breathe and I touch my human physical body to make sure that I'm physically here.

I then allow myself to bring the character here, within and as myself and look at the nature of the character, how I've separated myself through creating a net work of characters within that character, what I'm defending, what memories and pictures are associated with the character and as I physically apply Self Forgiveness as the realization of how and why I've created myself as a character, I move myself out of the character and remaining Here.

I commit myself to remind ourselves our importance within and as our current living physical expression wherein each one of us will have a role within and as the creation of a new world that is best for all through

downloading the program of LIFE to the current/existence program so that from this moment onwards, all will have the possibility to realize ourselves as LIFE, stand up as LIFE, and together as Life, create LIFE and so, 1 by 1 we will remember who we are as LIFE, remind each other that we are LIFE, support each other to step out of the characters that diminish LIFE, until it is done.