How Capitalism Justifies Child Labour - Part 2 - Day 309

This is continuation to my Previous blog - How Capitalism Justifies Child Labour - Day 308.

Here is another example of how the Capitalistic System has abdicate its responsibility with regards to Child Labour and within that, deliberately not seeing, realizing and understanding the direct relationship between Capitalism and Child Labour and how thus furthermore, the Capitalistic System as the Consumerism system IS the system that perpetuate Child Labour in this world while all alone, using g massive Psychology technics to manipulate and divert the human consciousness to never see one's responsible and thus, maintain the Status Quo of Abuse and Suffering in this world.

 

Here is a Question and Answer taken from the website Capitalism.org:

What halted child labor in factories? Throughout history the parents of most families could not produce enough to support their families without having their children work also. It was the accumulation of capital by the industrialists that increased the productivity of adults, so that children did not have to work in fields or factories. In poor non-capitalist countries they are still working in fields and factories, because the parents are not productive enough to support their children. Historically, children working in factories (and fields) was only a transitory stage between early feudalism and capitalism. Prior to working in factories, before the Industrial Revolution, many children (and their parents) used to die and starve, as evidenced by the high infant mortality statistics before the dawn of the Industrial Revolution. Observe that is was not until families left the “country” and went into the “cities” that they were able to produce enough food to eat. The clearest evidence of this is population and infant mortality statistics: population did not go up and infant mortality did not go down until the Industrial Revolution. If life was so great before capitalism in the “country”, why was infant mortality so high and population numbers considerably lower before capitalism? Answer: because life was not so great until the Industrial Revolution made its appearance.

 

 

Let's have a look at the first statement:

Throughout history the parents of most families could not produce enough to support their families without having their children work also. It was the accumulation of capital by the industrialists that increased the productivity of adults, so that children did not have to work in fields or factories. In poor non-capitalist countries they are still working in fields and factories, because the parents are not productive enough to support their children.

Yes, in Poor Non-Capitalist countries, the children works or shell we call it by its name - are Salved and Forced to work in the fields to support themselves and their Families. Now, why is that?

If one watch the Documentary - 'The Power Principle' one would see, realize and understand the US Agenda in keeping these Non-Capitalistic countries in it's current state of Government. Within that context and for the Full picture of what is really going on, I suggest reading the book: Confessions of an Economic Hit Man.

 

The Capitalistic System is the Force that made sure that these kids will forevermore remain slaves and will have no real change to fulfil their upmost potential. Instead of having a system that Equally support all whom involved in the production of a product, the system preserving the Status Quo within a blink of an eye.

These kids are forced to a life of Modern Slavery because we want to pursue our Rewards, that which makes us feel good, our happiness without giving any care and consideration for all who are involved in our perceived happiness. All we care about is to maximized our profits even if that means that others needs to be abused on the way. We are so good in denial that we can't even see what we are accepting and allowing due to extensive brainwashed done deliberately to make us Organic Robots. For that, I suggest watching the 'Century of the Self'.

 

Here is a Real Solution to End Child Labour and those who are able to implement such a solution are those who currently exists within Capitalistic Countries as we have the access and means to do just that:

 

WHAT IS PROFIT-SHARE?

Currently profit is the money a company makes after they have covered their costs, including paying out wages. In an EMC - profit comprises of all the added value that is placed on resources - which is your labour. Therefore - within the price, the percentage share must be included of each one that was part of the creation of the product in such a way that each one ends up with an equal share of the company's profits, so - there will be no need for wages - as the profit becomes your wage.

 

EQUALIZING WAGES – COOPERATION AMONG CORPORATIONS

If a company at any time makes more money than they need to provide each one with their equal share of the profit as well as covering their costs - those monies will go into a fund that is responsible for assisting companies that are not making sufficient to cover their costs and provide each one with their fair share. That way a balancing effect takes place so that all companies are not only cooperatives in how they cooperate internally - but all cooperate with each other as well…." (Day 163: Equal Money Capitalism - Redefining Profit)

 

Let's have  a look at the second statement:

 

Historically, children working in factories (and fields) was only a transitory stage between early feudalism and capitalism. Prior to working in factories, before the Industrial Revolution, many children (and their parents) used to die and starve, as evidenced by the high infant mortality statistics before the dawn of the Industrial Revolution. Observe that is was not until families left the “country” and went into the “cities” that they were able to produce enough food to eat. The clearest evidence of this is population and infant mortality statistics: population did not go up and infant mortality did not go down until the Industrial Revolution.

Here is another justification for why we should continue with the abusive Capitalistic System and defend it by stating that at the moment, the infant mortality rate is much less than before. Now, the truth is that infant mortality rate wasn't reduced due the Capitalistic System but due to the advancement of Medicine and technology. The Real question is - Why these advancement are not implemented world wide? Why not Equally share what we have so that others would have?

 

Also, I'm not sure that statistic is even accurate and measurable because it is isolated from the entire world and only measure the before and after of the Capitalistic countries without investigating the Consequences that lead to Infant Mortality as an outflow of the Capitalistic system. 

 

Again, what is not yet seen, realize and understood is that anything can by justified to keep the Status Quo in tact. The Question is - will we accept and allow these justification or we stand up and make sure that all have access to what the world have to offer? Why can't we not exists within the Principle of Give as You would Like to Receive in its absolute application?

 

If life was so great before capitalism in the “country”, why was infant mortality so high and population numbers considerably lower before capitalism? Answer: because life was not so great until the Industrial Revolution made its appearance.

Here again, a statement that should activate a form of acceptance within and as you. yes, your life is much better now because you have slaves to make it so without even being aware of the existent of such slaves. It's brilliant actually. Life wasn't great before the industrial Revolution and it's not great now. We would expect that Capital would be utilized to make life great but instead, it only perpetuated the gaps and cause severe Poverty, abuse and Suffering in this world. Life isn't great for the Majority of this world but Life can be great if we create a world that is literally best for all where happiness can be really expressed and lived without the harm and abuse of any life form. Understand one thing, as long as unnecessary suffering exists in this world, one can not protest for one's own happiness because if one does so, one is in complete separation from that which is here with no real values towards Life and all that Life is consisting of and existing as. If one is able to be happy without making sure that all have the ability to be happy in this world, what does that imply?

 

Let's stop all justifications for the Problems in this world but instead, take our responsibility as life to Correct the problems and establish a system that protect, respect and honour all life forms.

Investigate Equal Money.

 

 

 

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• How Capitalism Justify Child Labour - Day 308
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How Capitalism Justifies Child Labour - Day 308

I found it fascinating how Capitalism justify, defend and excuse the Atrocities of this world through comparing itself to other Ideology. These justifications/excuses is like a child that did something wrong and when the parents caught the child, the child would say: "But look, what my brother/sister did is much worse and therefor, I'm fine, no reason to be mad at me".

The Reasoning I found on the website capitalism.org are based on Fallacy however, unfortunately, the reasoning are aligned with our principle of self interest and therefor, we accept these reasoning and defend it as if it was the truth, completely deny and ignore the consequences of our acceptance and allowance that had manifested in this world as a result.

 

Let's look at the following Questions and Answers from the website - Capitalism.org

 

Doesn’t capitalism lead to child labor in factories? No. Capitalism did not create child labor working in fields or factories. It inherited it from the previous political systems. Observe that in communist Cuba of today 11 year old children are forcibly sent off to “summer camps” where they spend time working in fields cutting sugar cane and tobacco — this is called by leftists as “volunteerism” and “education”. Yet little mention is made of this. What halted child labor in factories? Throughout history the parents of most families could not produce enough to support their families without having their children work also. It was the accumulation of capital by the industrialists that increased the productivity of adults, so that children did not have to work in fields or factories. In poor non-capitalist countries they are still working in fields and factories, because the parents are not productive enough to support their children. Historically, children working in factories (and fields) was only a transitory stage between early feudalism and capitalism. Prior to working in factories, before the Industrial Revolution, many children (and their parents) used to die and starve, as evidenced by the high infant mortality statistics before the dawn of the Industrial Revolution. Observe that is was not until families left the “country” and went into the “cities” that they were able to produce enough food to eat. The clearest evidence of this is population and infant mortality statistics: population did not go up and infant mortality did not go down until the Industrial Revolution. If life was so great before capitalism in the “country”, why was infant mortality so high and population numbers considerably lower before capitalism? Answer: because life was not so great until the Industrial Revolution made its appearance. Will labor laws banning child labor in non-capitalist countries put an end to child poverty? Contrary to leftist rhetoric passing child labor laws in these countries will not solve the problem, but will only lead to mass starvation — which is why the “poor” themselves resist such laws. It is primarily for the benefit of the rich, leftist “humanitarians” — that live in capitalist countries — who cry out for these laws, that these laws are implemented.

 

Yes, it's true, Child Labour was existent before Capitalism, does that justify in any way Child Labour? the face that child Labour exists in other ideologies justified child Labour in any way whatsoever? NO!

Doesn’t capitalism lead to child labor in factories? No. Capitalism did not create child labor working in fields or factories. It inherited it from the previous political systems. Observe that in communist Cuba of today 11 year old children are forcibly sent off to “summer camps” where they spend time working in fields cutting sugar cane and tobacco — this is called by leftists as “volunteerism” and “education”. Yet little mention is made of this.

This statement is actually stating: "We got the Child Labour existence from the Previous Political System and this is why, one cannot blame us for it and besides, the Communist system allows child labour either so nothing is perfect". Again, I deliberately used the words within the expression of a child because it seems to be as a childish-like Behaviour where no one is taking responsibility but instead, shift the responsibility to others by dismissing one's wrong doing by highlight another's faulty behaviours.

 

I've walked intensively the point of child labour in Uzbekistan in its relation to the Capitalistic System around the world and how, due to lack of our education in understanding where we get our clothes from for instance, and who is involved in the production process from the fields to the stores. We are talking about massive modern slavery of all range of ages that is accepted and allowed by the Capitalistic world because as long as we get our rewards in a form of cheap and fancy shirt, we would not questions points like child labour and its relationship to capitalism. I suggest watching the Vlog done by Kelly - Review: A Woman's Journey to Life: Human Sweatshops will END in Equal Money Capitalism

 

The fact is that the Capitalistic System is ABLE to Eradicate child Labour around the world once we transform the Capitalistic Value of Money from Greed, Control and Power to a Value of Life that is best for all and in that, insuring that all children and their families have access to the world resources which include food, water, clothes, education, health care and so on. 

 

So, the fact that Capitalism didn't create a new form of Child Labour but rather 'Inherit' it from previous ideologies system, isn't validate the responsibility of the Capitalism system to make sure Child Labour is no more and in this, walking the necessary steps to make sure that ending Child Labour won't affect the better beings of their families but vice versa, through building a foundation of a sustainable Life that is dignified and worthwhile wherein no modern slave exists to benefit those with the Money within the Capitalistic System.

 

You can look at this in the following way -

Let's say that your neighbour died from some sort of circumstances and you left of raising their children. Now, before the neighbour died, you knew that the way the neighbour treated their children is inhuman and abusive and as a result, their children are facing behaviour problems and difficulties to socially connect with the world. Previously to the Neighbour's death, you felt that you couldn't do anything to protect the children because it wasn't your concern according to the system eye's view and there were no legal ways you could support the children. But now, once the neighbour died, you are responsible for the kids, despite of their behavioural problems. What would you do? You have 2 Options - Accept the Old and allow the continuation of unnecessary Consequences or stand up and assist and support these children to the best of your abilities. The first option would result with more time for yourself, with less responsibilities and you could enslave these kids to run errands for you or force them to make you food for you while you ley back on your comfortable Sofa and watching some Reality TV show. The Second option would mean that you'll have to give up from yourself to another, have greater responsibilities and no slaves to do stuff for you.

The Capitalistic System Statement above is a Mirror for the First option where one would say for instance: "oh, I'm not responsible because I have inherited the kids as they are and I won't do anything in my power to assist and support them. this is who they are, who they will be and I rather utlize what is here to maximize my living condition and well being".

However, if there is anything Good within you, and you have the ways and means to assist these kids, you would choose the Second option because that's the human thing to do and you won't use the excuses of this is what it was and this is what it will be. Am I right?

 

Same with the current world system - we cannot say this is what it always have been and this is what it will be - we have to take our responsibility and walk the corrections to resolve the problems within the system so that no one will have to suffer the consequences that we are directly and indirectly responsible for. This is our responsibility as Life, to make sure that everyone have their Life to Live no matter who and what they are. Life is Here and it needs to be aligned within the Principles of:

- Give as you would like to receive

- Do unto another as you would like to be done unto you

- Investigate ALL things and keep that which is good for All.

 

So which option will you walk? Option No.1 Remaining absolute ignorant which would result with the continuation of the abuse in this world and thus would place you in a position of an Abuser of Life or Option No.2 - Stand up for a life that is best for all and utilize this ONE Life that you have to make sure the Correction and Prevention to the Current world's problems would be established and implemented? You decide.

In the next blog, we will have a look at the next 2 Questions and Answers so stay tuned.

Child Marriage will END in an Equal Money System (Overview) - Day 285

This is a continuation to:

Abusive child marriages will END in an Equal Money System - Day 284 where I saw that extensive research is required in order for me to understand the core/source/origin of the Problem and from there, Present a solution to STOP Child Marriage World Wide.

 

Within this Blog, I Extracted basic information that I gathered from the Internet which I recommend that you investigate for yourself because really, there is no point in writing and describing again what was already said plenty of time by Professional people.

 

Videos that I suggest watching:

Too Young to Wed: Destaye

Too Young to Wed: The Secret World of Child Brides

The Bride Price: Consequences of Child Marriage Worldwide

Bangladesh Child Marriage (A documentary by BBC's Angus Crawford)

Archbishop Desmond Tutu and Hilary Clinton join forces to end child marriage

 

 

Articles to read:

Child Marriage Factsheets

National Geographic - Child Brides

The terrifying world of child brides: Devastating images show girls young enough to be in pre-school who are married off to older men  

Health Consequences of Child Marriage in Africa

Solutions to Ending Child Marriage in Southern Asia

 

Suggested Websites:

The International Center for Research on Women (ICRW)
To Young to Wed

 

the Problem:

(Overview)

When investigating the information above, it is very clear that the Problems isn't a secret and the world's leaders are very much aware of the Problem and yet, there was never a real and substantial change. It is Estimate that unless a solution is established and implemented, by the next Decade, 142 Million Girls, under that age 18 which means that on Average, 38,000 Girls would married, Daily However, there is a solution that once implemented, ALL child Marriages will Cease to Exists.

 

What was yet to seen, realized and understood was the Western world Responsibility and accountability for the Problem due to our belief systems that we have a 'Free Choice' and within this 'Free Choice', only a few expressed their Choice in standing up to stop certain world's problem while us the majority, utilized our 'Free Choice' to protect our Self Interest.

 

So a note before I start sharing my investigation regarding Child Marriage -

The Solution was already presented by many that had come before me however, unless Equal Money System is in place, the solutions won't be implemented immediately and Child Marriage may only be completely stopped in 100 years from now with the birth of at least 2 generations to come however, 100 years indicate Billion of people and specifically girls that would be abused, suffering, raped, etc. We do not have the time to wait another 100 years to stop one single point - we must act urgently because the longer we wait, the longer the lives of many is destroyed and harmed.

 

Child Marriage (Under 18 years of age) Around the world:

 

Here is a few Facts and Figures that I took from the International Center for Research on Women (ICRW):

 

Child Marriage Around the world

• If present trends continue, 142 million girls will marry over the next decade. That’s 38,000 girls married every day for the next 10 years.

 

Poverty and Child Marriage

• Girls living in poor households are almost twice as likely to marry before 18 than girls in higher income households.
• More than half of the girls in Bangladesh, Mali, Mozambique and Niger are married before age 18. In these same countries, more than 75 percent of people live on less than $2 a day.

 

Education and Child Marriage

• Girls with higher levels of schooling are less likely to marry as children. In Mozambique, some 60 percent of girls with no education are married by 18, compared to 10 percent of girls with secondary schooling and less than one percent of girls with higher education.
• Educating adolescent girls has been a critical factor in increasing the age of marriage in a number of developing countries, including Indonesia, Sri Lanka, Taiwan and Thailand.

 

Health and Child Marriage

• Girls younger than 15 are five times more likely to die in childbirth than women in their 20s. Pregnancy is the leading cause of death worldwide for women ages 15 to 19.
• Child brides face a higher risk of contracting HIV because they often marry an older man with more sexual experience. Girls ages 15 – 19 are 2 to 6 times more likely to contract HIV than boys of the same age in sub-Saharan Africa.

 

Violence and Child Marriage

• Girls who marry before 18 are more likely to experience domestic violence than their peers who marry later. A study conducted by ICRW in two states in India found that girls who were married before 18 were twice as likely to report being beaten, slapped or threatened by their husbands than girls who married later.

• Child brides often show signs symptomatic of sexual abuse and post-traumatic stress such as feelings of hopelessness, helplessness and severe depression.

 

Religion and Child Marriage

• No one religious affiliation was associated with child marriage, according to a 2007 ICRW study. Rather, a variety of religions are associated with child marriage in countries throughout the world.

 

For the Complete Fact Sheet - please download the PDF File - http://www.icrw.org/publications/child-marriage-factsheets

 

Though, the problem is much more sever than the Numbers and facts that are shared here. The Root of the Problem is Money as the Foundation of Child Marriage. In many cases, the Girl is being sent of to get married so that her family will no longer have to hold the burden of her Living Expanses wherein in other cases, the girl's family could get out of Debt once the Girl is sent of to get Married. The starting points or the reasoning of sending the Girl away to marry differ from culture to Culture but in all culture, the common denominator is Money or shell we say - the Lack of Money.

 

I really suggest that if you have some dignity within you, some compassion and care for human kind, do some research of your own to understand the root/source/core of the problem and why/how it has direct relationship with Money. If you do so, you would be able to understand the Solutions and within that, what needs to be done to stop not only Child Marriage but many other issues that daily occurring around the world.

 

So, I will give you a moment to go through the Material while tomorrow, we will walk through together the Practical Solutions and the Rewards on the Individual and Collective Levels.

We are Doomed - Day 256

No, it is not another prophecy, Future telling or psychic reading - it is the actual ugly and unspoken truth. How do I Know that we are doomed?

 

I've been learning and educating myself a lot recently regarding the world, History, why and how we had evolved to where we are now and what were and still are the forces that are involved in what we believe to be 'Free choice'. 

 

World leaders where removed, assassin, kidnapped and tortured by unseen forces that made sure their voice won't be heard, that their political Policies won't manifest and more importantly, that the Real 'Free Choice' would never be seen, realized, understood and thus applied by the Majority of this world.

 

Today, I read through half of the book - Confessions of an Economic Hit Man by John Perkins which amazed me by the Level of ignorance we as humanity Share. By how much we turn a blind eye to what is happening behind the scenes to the extant of which, we would name and defined the truth with the word 'Conspiracy' without ever cross referencing, asking questions, challenging the information that is unconditionally presented over the Internet and WHY? Because who would want to admit that we do not really have a free choice? That we are Puppets of a handful of people that govern our every single decision that we make.

 

On top of that, the Oil Crises that I doubt if our children or grandchildren would be lucky to survive once we run out of Resources to sustain a dignified Life.

 

So, we are doomed, we are on our way to diminish and abolish the Earth.

 

Unless we move, nothing will move, nothing will change. Why the hell are we waiting for the world to end? Why can't we read the huge sign on the wall and take actions? Why are we so busy occupying ourselves with war, with hate; why can't we stop complain but instead, come to a firm and applicable solution?

Hear me!! We cannot wait till it's too late because this time, too late is a definitive too lateness.

 

Join us to Stop creating the production of Consequences that would lead to a no-return point.

Join us to Create a world where Free Choice is REAL.

Join us - if not for yourself than for the generations to come.

Join us so that when your grandchildren will ask you what have you done in your life that supported the World, you'll have a dignified answer that you could be proud of because if that happened, and you have done nothing to change this world to a world that is best for all, while you could have had - your regret and shame would be worthless.

 

      Join us – http://equalmoney.org

Intimacy in Practical Application - Part 2 - Day 155

This is a continuation to:

Developing Intimate sexual communication with Self - Day 151

Intimacy in Words - Part 1 - Day 152

Intimacy in Words - Part 2 - Day 153

Intimacy in Practical Application - Part 1 - Day 154

 

I commit myself to SHOW why and how we have never developed and established an effective communication with ourselves as well as each other as we have always been separated ourselves from ourselves and existence as a whole through continually and consistently Fearing each others and what we would discover about ourselves when and as we give ourselves the permission to really get to know ourselves as our mind because we know that once our communication with ourselves would be in place, we would force ourselves to change as we discover our self dishonesties and could no longer live with ourselves; and we know that for one to change, one must give up that which one had defined oneself as which we believe to be hard/tough and unrewarded as we no longer be motivated and encouraged by our society bur rather, each step, each moment, each breath would be our own self movement, our own self will, our own self responsibility in self honesty which is by itself - the hardest thing one can ever transform oneself into - Self honest living human being that direct and move oneself and one's world according to that which is best for all and therefor, we have decided to suppress our communication with ourselves so that we won't ever get to this point of becoming responsible for our own self creation. The question would now be - will we dare to change despite what we have defined ourselves as, despite our fear to change? Would we dare to develop and establish an effective communication with all the parts of ourselves? Would we dare to LIVE as a physical expression as LIFE that is best for all?

 

I commit myself to SHOW that within this current world system, no one is in fact teaching, educating and showing how one can stand in absolute self honest expression within oneself and in this, having communication with oneself and therefor each other that is based on a support structure that would create and manifest a world that is best for all.

 

I commit myself to SHOW that an effective communication with each other must start with developing an effective communication with oneself so that self can first get to know self and all its parts and accordingly, align self to that which is best for all through which one would stand as an example and show to others how to stand, walk, direct and move self into having a direct communication with oneself that is based on self honesty living consideration for all that is here in oneness and equality and so - we would create a world that is based on Equality through utilizing communication to investigate and explore our natural physical requirement as well as our relationship between our mind and the physical to sustain a fulfilment life, a life that consider everything and everyone and a life where we respect and support our neighbours as ourselves, equal and one.

 

I commit myself to SHOW that parents has no clue in how to support their children to be and become an effective human beings in this world and through being ineffective parent, the parents are directly responsible for this mass that is manifested in this world as they have not communicated with themselves, investigating how and why they have accepted and allowed themselves to be and become a self interest creature that sucks the Life from EARTH in maintaining their own desire for an experience with no consideration at all for others but themselves. And thus, through parents not taking the responsibility to establish an effective communication with themselves, they create their children in a separated cocoon where the child would become the parent and teach their children the same as their parents had taught them and so - we create a world where abuse and suffering is only getting worst as the generations are becoming more and more stuck within their mind = allowing others to experience that which they would never accept and allow themselves to experience and the cycle of abuse continues and the suffering is growing until it would be too late.. And what then? Isn't it better if we stop manifesting consequences which we cannot correct? Isn't it better to develop an intimate communication with oneself, getting to know self and self's relationship to the mind and in this, assist and support oneself to transform oneself to a living physical human  being that consider everything and everyone in Oneness and Equality? I'm one vote for self honesty self communication- visit the Desteni I Process website and start today your process of self transformation.

Intimacy in Practical Application - Part 1 - Day 154

This is a continuation to:

Developing Intimate sexual communication with Self - Day 151

Intimacy in Words - Part 1 - Day 152

Intimacy in Words - Part 2 - Day 153

 

I commit myself to assist and support myself in developing and establishing an effective communication with myself where, I slowly but surely walking out of my mind, allowing myself to become absolutely honest with myself and leaving no suppressed system behind and in this, I commit myself to effectively walk my Agreement Course to assist and support myself in establishing this commitment that I've set forth to myself as I see, realize and understand that the Agreement course is the stepping stone in establishing an effective relationship with self, which from that, one is able to establish an effective relationship with others.

Thus, when and as I face resistance to walk through my lessons and assignments, I stop, let go of this resistance as I see, realize and understand that the existence of the resistance is due to a fear of change and as I commit myself to change who I have become, I push through the resistance and walk myself through the lessons as the assignments and in that, giving myself the permission to change.

 

I commit myself to develop and establish an effective communication regarding sex and sexuality with myself. In this, to explore and investigate my human physical body so that when sex is here, I will not accept and allow any form of self abuse that may harm my body.

 

In this, I commit myself to accept and allow myself to walk in alignment with my prospect partner regarding sex and sexuality and within this, share, explore and investigate together the physical support required to our bodies because I see, realize and understand the extent of separation we have accepted and allowed from and as our human physical body and the consequences therefore wherein, within accepting and allowing walking in misalignment to/as our human physical body, we accept and allow the abuse of the body that we have given to walk with in this one life time.

 

I commit myself to form, establish and develop communication with my prospect partner wherein, we would investigate together and commit within an agreement regarding to how we would walk this life, what we would accept and allow and what we would not, how are we going to assist and support ourselves within our processes and how we would utilize the physical support within and as sex. I see realize and understand that without having a stable foundation to an agreement, abuse, sabotage and compromise will be allowed which is a point I will not tolerate, accept and allow to exists within me and my world.

 

I commit myself to Stop my reactions towards people in my world as I see, realize and understand that having reaction indicate a point within myself that is not aligned and must be looked at, investigated and sorted out. In this, I commit myself to take the responsibility, when and as I see myself accessing these reactions, to Stop, Breathe and bring myself back here and to in this, stop my participation in my mind, to change my living application that I've allowed to manifest in that moment and to immediately change myself, here, without any form of excuse like: "oh, I will write it down later, I will look at this point later, I can't do it write now", as I see, realize and understand that any form of excuses to not change myself in a quantum time moment is accepting and allowing my own opinions to enslave and control me and in that, sabotage myself and my relationships with others. I realize that all it takes is a self honest decision to STOP, Transform and Change and it is ME who Decide to either remain enslaved or to change.

 

I commit myself to write down my expectations from my prospect partner to see how can I align/transform/change my expectation to what is here as best for all principle within what I would accept and allow and what I would not from myself as well as my partner and in doing so, to investigate in self honesty my opinions, beliefs, ideas and essentially my starting point within these expectation and to make sure there is no previous pattern and/or fears that is guiding and leading these expectation with no common sense foundation in alignment to/as what is best for all. In this, I commit myself to communicate with my partner and establishing the basic foundation for our agreement.

Intimacy in Words - Part 2 - Day 153

 

This is a continuation to:

Developing Intimate sexual communication with Self - Day 151

Intimacy in Words - Part 1 - Day 152

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to NOT realize that within an effective agreement/relationship with a partner, communication between the partners must be constructive, supportive and effective and that if one accept and allow any back chat and reactions towards their partner, the entire relationship/agreement is being compromised, abused and sabotaged.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to only communicate with my partner regarding sex when it makes me look better, cooler and exotic and doing that from the starting point of the desire to be more desirable and attractive to him so that he would not consider leaving me for another woman and in this, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to consider that if I require to seduce my partner by using specific words in a specific tonality, the foundation of  our relationship/agreement is cracked and must be revised within the starting point of whether or not there is a possibility to develop and establish an effective relationship/agreement that is based on a support structure that would result in with our self empowerment and growth to stand, be and become the utmost effective human beings in this world that would walk in every moment of breath within and as the principle of that which is best for all.

 

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to develop and establish an effective and intimate communication with my partner because I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see, realize and understand that I've been trying to hide and run away from facing myself in any given moment by walking into a relationship/agreement that wouldn't support me in any way, to expose and reveal myself as what I've become which through seeing myself as who I am now, I could take self responsibility into changing and transforming myself into an effective human being in this world with the assistance and support of myself in particular and my partner as an additional support.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to blame my partner and react in anger when and as he had done something that I didn't liked/approved and in that, I forgive myself that I've not accepted and allowed myself to realize that unless my partner and I would write an agreement of what we would accept and allow within ourselves, each other and this world as  whole, we would react, spite, and resent each other as our communication from the get go wasn't effective, supported and agreed upon, when and as our expectation from each other wouldn't meet and/or stand in alignment to the physical reality.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed having expectation from my partner and when those expectation didn't meet the physical reality as my partner didn't stand according to my expectations, I've reacted in anger, frustration and resentment without seeing, realizing and understanding that there is no way my partner can stand according to my expectations if we haven't communicated about it and looked at the starting point to see if the point is practical and supportive for both of us and through that, coming together within an agreement whether or not we would walk this point or simply let it go as that is what's best for all.