Showing posts with label Aggressive Behaviour. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aggressive Behaviour. Show all posts
Nov 4, 2012 | By: A Woman

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 7) - Day 204

Is Free Choice Real?

 

This is a continuation to:

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 1) - Day 198

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 2) - Day 199

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 3) - Day 200

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 4) - Day 201

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 5) - Day 202

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 6) - Day 203

 

So, What is Free Choice?

When looking at what we have discussed regarding our Preferences, Free choice doesn't seem to be so much Free as we had believed it was; I mean, If my Preference, for example, to not get involved with the current world events, in reading/watching/hearing the news, to avoid the Fear Experience that I've stored within and as me, as memory from my childhood, did I really have a choice in 'disliking' watching/hearing/reading the news as a grown-up? was the Choice Free or was I only living the illusion of free choice by responding to my pre-programmed design?

 

From a certain perspective, Yes, it was a free Choice, but one that I've made early in my childhood, within my Decision to store the Memory experience as Fear within and as me, through how I had accepted and allowed myself to program myself with the storage and thus the imprint of my experience which I would then act upon within my adult years.

 

However, within that, we must not forget our innocence wherein, as a child, I didn’t have the tools to be able to look within and as myself, to investigate the nature of the fear, see the outflows that may occur through my acceptance and allowances of my pre-programmed designs; wherein if trained as an effective human being I could have seen the consequences that result from that which I accept as my programming, such as 'preferring to not get involved with the Current world Matters', and through this directly seeing, and making the decision to Free myself from the Fear Experience through the CORRECTIVE application of - Immediate self forgiveness, BREATH, and standing within and as my human physical body, checking/assessing that I'm in fact, Here, in the Physical, with no energy movement because I see, realize and understand that if I accept and allow energy movement to remain in my body, I've already accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself as a physical living human being and in that, give my power a way to the Energy that would slowly but surely accumulate within and as me, and become my directive principle in how I would move, walk and direct my life.

(The corrective application process will be discussed in more detail in the blogs to come)

 

As was described in my Previous blog, Preference is:

"Preference is the choices one would make according to the 'possibilities' that one sees in one's world and one's reality which one would then, evaluate according to what would be the best choice to make that would result with the best outcome that would be best for self within one's own self interest and desires . This we can also see in the 'Sounding' of the word 'Preference' -> Pre-Reference; wherein one would firstly look at all the References that exists for self, those references represents the Choices/possibilities one have and accordingly make the decision that is best for self."

 

Free choiceLet's have a look at 'Possibilities that one sees' in relationship to Preferences.

As was explained and shown in The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 1) - Day 198 - our Seeing of Reality is through our Experiences that we have created within and as our minds within the context of attaching/associating a Value which is either Positive or Negative to what we see in our reality according to our pre-programmed designs. For instance, with the Brick example - either I like or dislike the colour/shape/texture of the Brick, won't change the Physicality of the Brick but only change my Experience in relation to the Brick.

 

The Positive or Negative Value within the context of 'Preferences' is what we Like and Dislike or what we Desire or have a resistance towards, which would determine the value we will assign/attach/associate with our experience wherein, Like/Desire would be the Positive Value as a Positive Experience and Dislike/Resistance would be the Negative Value as a Negative Experience. Therefor, the 'Possibilities' that we 'see' in our reality, as the foundation of our Preferences as  the Choices we would live out, would be according to our Desires/Likes or our Resistances/Dislikes, all of which within the context of one's Self Interest to manifest the best outcome for oneself.

 

The questions that must be asked now are - where do my Desires come from? Where do my Resistances come from? Where/when/how/why have I decided to Like or Dislike a certain thing? Where/when/how/why have I decided to have a Desire or have a Resistance towards certain things? Without investigating these points within and as myself but rather take my Preferences for granted, place the entire design of Free choice in Question because I can clearly see for myself that, my Preference of not getting involved with the Current world matters were  a Justified preference I made within and as myself, to not Face my Resistance to a Past memory as an experience of Fear wherein I programmed myself to believe that I simply Dislike watching/reading/hearing the News and thus, I can state for myself that, I had no free choice in moments where I had the possibility to watch/read/hear the news and decided not to participate, because I blindly followed my pre-programmed design in 'choosing' to not get involved with the news.

 

Thus - Does Free choice exists when and as we follows our pre-programmed Life Design? Are we in fact the Directive principle in every moment of every breath when we follow our Pre-programmed life design? These are questions that can be answered in Self Honesty. However, the Difference between Self Honesty and Honesty is a blog by itself that I would walk in my next Blog.

 

*Note - to understand the relationship between Energy and our Human Physical body, I suggest studying the Quantum Mind Series on EQAFE.

Nov 3, 2012 | By: A Woman

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 6) - Day 203

The Relationship between Preference and Free Choice:

 

This is a continuation to:

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 1) - Day 198

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 2) - Day 199

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 3) - Day 200

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 4) - Day 201

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 5) - Day 202

 

Let's take another example of how preferences are playing a rule in our life within and as the starting point of one's self interest. As a parent - one may 'prefer' that one's  children is quiet in specific moments of the day and one would justify it to oneself by stating that "it was a hard day at work, I must rest for a moment", or " I require to rest and get the sufficient strength in being able to spend time with my child later because my child is taking so much energy from me". However, within one's 'preferences', that one's child should watch TV, one didn't take into consideration the consequential outflows of one's child' development and for example, the relationship between Children TV series and Consumerism. Within that context, regardless if you are a parent or not, I suggest watching the documentary "Consumerism Kids". ( "… The film focuses on the explosive growth of child marketing in the wake of deregulation, showing how youth marketers have used the latest advances in psychology, anthropology, and neuroscience to transform American children into one of the most powerful and profitable consumer demographics in the world. Consuming Kids pushes back against the wholesale commercialization of childhood, raising urgent questions about the ethics of children’s marketing and its impact on the health and well-being of kids." )

 

If we trace back our Parent's Pre-programming, we'd see that our parents behaved exactly the same (the same patterns), which we now as a parent behave as, as we had copied the program from our parents and we are now transferring the same programming to our children (The Sin of the Fathers). Thus, here, we can see again the relationship between our preference and our pre-programming, where we, haven't considered within and as ourselves, the implications of where for instance, my preferences came from? Where in my life have I created the 'idea' that 'I must rest because I had an hard day at work and unless I rest, I won't be able to spend time with my children'. Why it is that our solution to entertain our children is through placing them in front of the TV and whether or not, this solution would result with the best outcome for a child in terms of a child's development - mentally and physically. Within that, the question we must ask ourselves is - Does one, as a parent, have free choice within one's preference in placing one's child in front of the TV so that one could take a nap/rest? What is then the relationship between Preferences and Free choice?

 

So - I suggest to really take an inner look when and as we speak/think the words: "I prefer" and how we would act, based on our Preference because, as was shown in these blogs, our preferences, may not even be our owns but a copied program that we had copied from our parents, with no self awareness.

 

The BeLIEf that parents love their Children and would not teach them harmful ways of living is thwarted by the evidence presented by human society that clearly indicate that Man do not care about Man. Parenting is the foundation and the backbone of society and society is the evidence of Parenting. Study the Physical Quantum Dynamics of the Mind to understand why Society at large is a Mess or you remain part of the mess while living in the self created illusion in your mind. Bernard Poolman

 

Some may Negatively react to the above statement because we cannot even compute that our parenting skills  are part of the enlarged problem of this world because, from our perspective, we are good parents and love our children so much that we will do anything in our power to protect them and educate them to our best of our abilities. However we are not considering the outflows of our actions, in for instance, placing our child in front of the TV so that we can have a moment for ourselves, as a pre-programmed Preference, before we investigate the Physical dynamics and the outflows that would result with our actions, is a concerning point we must address.

 

And now, again, it is not a judgement, it is not a point that is either Negative or Positive - we were never trained to investigate all things and keep that which is good in a practical manner. We were never trained to be effective parents but rather, we were trained to copy our parents programming and became their exact duplicate in how we would raise our own children and that goes far back, as the sin of the fathers.

 

The Desteni Message will show you what one had never considered before and accordingly present solutions to sort out the problem from its origin/core/source through a process of correction, which we will get to, in blogs to come.

 

In my next blog, we will have a closer look at Free Choice in the context of one's preferences.