Nov 3, 2012 | By: A Woman

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 6) - Day 203

The Relationship between Preference and Free Choice:


This is a continuation to:

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 1) - Day 198

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 2) - Day 199

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 3) - Day 200

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 4) - Day 201

The Correction Process and The Desteni Message (Part 5) - Day 202


Let's take another example of how preferences are playing a rule in our life within and as the starting point of one's self interest. As a parent - one may 'prefer' that one's  children is quiet in specific moments of the day and one would justify it to oneself by stating that "it was a hard day at work, I must rest for a moment", or " I require to rest and get the sufficient strength in being able to spend time with my child later because my child is taking so much energy from me". However, within one's 'preferences', that one's child should watch TV, one didn't take into consideration the consequential outflows of one's child' development and for example, the relationship between Children TV series and Consumerism. Within that context, regardless if you are a parent or not, I suggest watching the documentary "Consumerism Kids". ( "… The film focuses on the explosive growth of child marketing in the wake of deregulation, showing how youth marketers have used the latest advances in psychology, anthropology, and neuroscience to transform American children into one of the most powerful and profitable consumer demographics in the world. Consuming Kids pushes back against the wholesale commercialization of childhood, raising urgent questions about the ethics of children’s marketing and its impact on the health and well-being of kids." )


If we trace back our Parent's Pre-programming, we'd see that our parents behaved exactly the same (the same patterns), which we now as a parent behave as, as we had copied the program from our parents and we are now transferring the same programming to our children (The Sin of the Fathers). Thus, here, we can see again the relationship between our preference and our pre-programming, where we, haven't considered within and as ourselves, the implications of where for instance, my preferences came from? Where in my life have I created the 'idea' that 'I must rest because I had an hard day at work and unless I rest, I won't be able to spend time with my children'. Why it is that our solution to entertain our children is through placing them in front of the TV and whether or not, this solution would result with the best outcome for a child in terms of a child's development - mentally and physically. Within that, the question we must ask ourselves is - Does one, as a parent, have free choice within one's preference in placing one's child in front of the TV so that one could take a nap/rest? What is then the relationship between Preferences and Free choice?


So - I suggest to really take an inner look when and as we speak/think the words: "I prefer" and how we would act, based on our Preference because, as was shown in these blogs, our preferences, may not even be our owns but a copied program that we had copied from our parents, with no self awareness.


The BeLIEf that parents love their Children and would not teach them harmful ways of living is thwarted by the evidence presented by human society that clearly indicate that Man do not care about Man. Parenting is the foundation and the backbone of society and society is the evidence of Parenting. Study the Physical Quantum Dynamics of the Mind to understand why Society at large is a Mess or you remain part of the mess while living in the self created illusion in your mind. Bernard Poolman


Some may Negatively react to the above statement because we cannot even compute that our parenting skills  are part of the enlarged problem of this world because, from our perspective, we are good parents and love our children so much that we will do anything in our power to protect them and educate them to our best of our abilities. However we are not considering the outflows of our actions, in for instance, placing our child in front of the TV so that we can have a moment for ourselves, as a pre-programmed Preference, before we investigate the Physical dynamics and the outflows that would result with our actions, is a concerning point we must address.


And now, again, it is not a judgement, it is not a point that is either Negative or Positive - we were never trained to investigate all things and keep that which is good in a practical manner. We were never trained to be effective parents but rather, we were trained to copy our parents programming and became their exact duplicate in how we would raise our own children and that goes far back, as the sin of the fathers.


The Desteni Message will show you what one had never considered before and accordingly present solutions to sort out the problem from its origin/core/source through a process of correction, which we will get to, in blogs to come.


In my next blog, we will have a closer look at Free Choice in the context of one's preferences.


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