The Answer is within the Question - Day 390

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is a continuation of the previous blog: Why did we stop questioning our reality? (Part 1) - Day 387 and

Why did we stop questioning our reality? (Part 2) - Day 388 and Why children do not respects Parents? - Day 389. For the full context of this blog, I suggest reading through these blogs for context.

 

So why have we stopped questioning our reality? How is it that at a young age we constantly asked: "But Why?" and then all of a sudden we became these beings that had submitted to the system that is dysfunctional in nature and yet, do not question it whatsoever? And of course, we cannot even question why we didn't thus far question because that would indicate that we are questioning our reality but since we are so use to not question anything, we end up where we are - in a dysfunctional world system where Equality, Integrity and Oneness is no where to be found; in a world system that is based on Greed, Power and Control where the winner takes it all; in a world system where unless you have money, you are not safe; in a world system that it's based foundation is to keep the human enslaved, limited and ineffective; it is time to start questioning our reality and in doing so, also walk the solutions and establish a world we can all be proud at.

 

As I've shown in the previous blogs, suppressing our natural ability to understand and comprehend a point was taken cared of at home, by our parents. And they cannot be blamed because they have been suppressed and limited by their own parents which are also not to be blamed because they have walked the same path with their parents and so on and on and on... the sin of the fathers keep on passing generation after generation. But the cycle must be stopped eventually and the questions must be asked and resolve into a solution that is best for all.

 

It seems to me that at some stage in our lives, when we realize that we are not going to live the happily ever after story as how we would have pictured and imagined our lives to be, for a glimpse of a moment we find ourselves wondering how did we come to this point and what went wrong during the way. We will start questioning our lives and from here, one of two things would happened: most likely, we would again submit to our course of life and justify for ourselves why our lives is just perfect the way it is and in rare cases, we would continue to investigate but once we realize that we are the solution, that we are the key, we will immediate give up and then justify for ourselves again why we shouldn't even bother. Yes, there are also these rare cases were we become activists and make a small and insignificant change in the world and again, justify for ourselves that we did our share and that is all that one can do. Although, there is one thing that none of us have yet to realize and that is - on the individual level, we cannot make a change however, once we stand together, as humanity and we align ourselves to the principle of absolute equality as what is best for all then… we can make a change.

 

It isn't going to be easy and with any new change, resistance will come up and it's ok - we have all been there and walked this point and you can read all about it in our journeys to life but the thing is - the answer is within the question and all we have to do is keep on asking the questions so that we can finally see the answer that was always here.

 

Join us in our journey of questioning our reality and see the answer for yourself.

 

 

 

 

The Secret War between Women starts at home - Part 2 - Day 54

This is a continuation to:

The Secret War between Women - Overview - Day 52

The Secret war between Women - the Childhood years - Part 1 - Day 53

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to see that the war between women starts at home - between Mother/daughter and/or sisters and I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a mother in this world to support the secret war between women through me standing as an example of competition, comparison, gossiping, jealousy and judgment and within that, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that by me standing as an example of competition, comparison, judgement and jealousy, I'm imprinting those components into my child's mind and then, my child will design and program herself accordingly wherein she would compete, compare and judge other women in her world either internally or externally.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a child in this world to compete with my siblings for the love of my parents within the desire of being loved the most through which I have created multiple personalities, habits and mannerism which I've carried with me later on within the world system wherein I will secretly fight with other women for the love and attention of men and thus, allow myself to participate in my secret mind within spiteful and judgmental thoughts to elevate my experience of myself and talk myself into the belief that I'm better, superior and more than other women in this world.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a child in this world, to believe I must compete for my parents attention with my siblings and thus, created from a very young age back chat in the nature of comparison, competition, jealousy, spitefulness and judgement towards my siblings which later than, I've externalized the back chat towards other beings in my life because I've taken for granted the competitive nature of me through walking the example of those who have come before me.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself as a parent in this world to support the internal and external competition that my daughters are participating with to get my love and attention and despite of seeing how it's playing out and the experience of my daughters within themselves, I have allowed them to continue participating with comparison/competition without giving them practical tools to face that which they face as well as explaining them the design of competition/comparison because I perceived those components to be normal, important and valid without taking a moment for myself, to investigate and introspect myself to see the core/origin/source of competition/comparison and accordingly, stop myself, change myself and stand as an example for my children so that they could empower and grow themselves instead of becoming lesser human beings in this world in a full and separated integration with their mind.

I commit myself to show how back chat in the nature of competition, comparison, jealousy, judgment and spitefulness are being programmed in the first 7 years of children's lives and how the parents are responsible for the imprint and creation of the child's backchats through the example the parents are standing as.

I commit myself to be attentive and aware of my children attempt to win my love and attention over their siblings and within that, explain to my children the games they are allowing in their mind, the consequences of such participation, as all as providing them with practical tool to assist and support themselves throughout their lives.

I commit myself to debunk the inherited belief that competition is healthy components in one's lives as a catalysts/motivator for one's movement/direction in life and prove that one do not require external forces to move and direct oneself but instead, one can become the directive principle of one's life within the principle of that which is best for all.

I commit myself to assist and support with the research and development of parental skills for children between the age of 0-7 as those are the most crucial years where the child will develop their personalities according to the example their parents superimpose on them.