Life without Fears start with a Decision - Day 361

This is a continuation to the Previous blog: The Compartment of Now - Day 359 and Establishing an Effective management system - Day 360 where we have seen how Fears play a role in our lives and within that, how ineffective we have become with the blindly acceptance and allowance of existing with fears within every moment we breathe in till the last moment we breathe out, at death. 

 

By now, it is clear as crystal that if we really want to change the way we approach Life, we must change our relationship to fears as it is our fears from which we base our decisions upon and ironically enough, we have never even considered that it was us who have made the decision to create the fears upon which we would later on base our decision on.

 

Let's go back to the first blog: The Compartment of Now - Day 359 where we have seen how we can look at our lives through the glasses of compartments that represents moments in time, moments that started with us taking a breath in and finished with us taking a breath out. Within each compartment, there are specific things that needs to be done that can be measured and applied by practical actions. So if for instance, we look at the example shared in the blog  Establishing an Effective management system - Day 360 where we were within a compartment of which all we had to do was posting our med school application and thus, this specific compartment ends the moment we posted our enrolment through the mail box. Now, ahead of us are multiple other compartments which for example, one of them was making dinner and cutting some vegetables to make ourselves a salad however, we decided to merged the 2 compartments through allowing fears and worries about whether or not we would be allowed to move to the next phase of med school evaluation and since we haven't being paying attention to the current compartment of a physical action of cutting a vegetable, we cut our self cause our attention was to our minds. Now this is just a simple example of how fears inteFEAR with our day to day living application as we have not understood or have been willing to see the simplistic of walking one breath at a time, one compartment at a time but instead, we live in constant fears as if Breath is equal to fear and instead of walking breath by breath, we walk fear by fear.

 

Wouldn't it make much more sense if we would simply post our med school application and you know, when the result arrive in 6-8 weeks we would face what ever the moment will be within self trust that what ever happen, we would align and adapt ourselves according to what is here, what needs to be done and simply keep on walking?

I mean, is there anything practical we can do within this 6-8 weeks that would change the result? No, we have no longer control over the point so why even bather with worrying about something we have no control over?

 

Unfortunately, we have accepted these fears as our normal behaviour that letting these fears go, may require a radical change in how we approach our lives. For that, we have designed fantastic free online course - DIP Lite where one is able to get to know some basic tools that would allow one to start seeing oneself in a different light; start seeing one's fears as one's current directive force and from that seeing, making the decision of what one would accept and allow and what one would not.

So, an interesting process ahead and if we dare, gift ourselves the gift of Life, the freedom of ForGifting ourselves, oh, I'm sorry, ForGiving ourselves for what we've created as ourselves with no awareness and to then, start living in awareness as the one who decides who we are in every moment of every breath, both in, and out.

 

 

 

Death Research - Day 350

 

This blog is not to terrify you or to make you be more fearful with regards to Death, it is rather to show you how little do we really know and how important it is to investigate all things and keep that which is best for all.

I've recently invested my time in listening to the Death Research interviews which is again to me, emphasized how we have created all sort of assumptions and opinions about Death without actually speaking with anyone that had died, someone who could share in details every moment of their death experience; you know, the real nitty gritty details and not just: "I saw the light".

 

The Death Research interviews are Fascinating from the perspective of being able to walk with a person who actually experience death, the moments of death and what is really happening to the Mind, the Physical and the being in those crucial moments.

I had this fantasy that upon death for instance, one would no longer experience Physical pain, that everything is gone, disappear and you are out of here but as with all fantasies it doesn't work like that.

I had this idea that I can trust what Science describe about death when for example the doctors says to the family of a person who died in traumatic event that the person didn't feel anything, that they lost consciousness and thus couldn't feel a thing. Unfortunately, that is not the case.

 

So why then, is it important to listen to these interviews? For myself, it is a point of motivation to actually Live and Use the time I have left to do something that is constructive, supportive and meaningful on earth, instead of reaching to my end of Life to only find out that I've missed Life while being on earth. Now, that doesn't mean that one should let go of all one's responsibility and have as much fun as possible. No, that is again not real LIFE but a distraction from the actual Gift of Life that only us, as individuals can discover for ourselves unless it is too late, and we die, without being able to come back and correct ourselves.

 

If anything, fearing Death is useless because so long as we fear what is defiantly certain, how can we honestly Live? How did we miss such a simple point of fearing something that is so definitive like the fact that we will die one day while all along, we are missing ourselves when having the physical opportunity to discover the actuality of ourselves as Life, an opportunity that will no longer exists at death. I mean, do you know anyone who didn't die? No right?! So why do we fear dying if it something that is so natural and if we appreciate life so much that we don't want to die, why isn't this appreciation is shown in a physical measurable manner?

 

If we really cared about Life, wouldn't we be busy creating a world where LIFE could be lived by all without having to face struggles, abuse and the atrocities that the majority of us are daily experiencing?

So, there is defiantly a dichotomy here - we fear Death and we do not want to die but yet, we do not appreciate Life according to our collective physical actions. So it is time to investigate these points and become clear about our starting point in terms of deciding if we appreciate and care about LIFE or we just here, till we die, spending the moments we've got left until our Life will be taken from us without any free will. I mean, we do not decide the time we die isn't?

 

So, the Death Research interview Series, describes specific events of death such as Heart Attack, Burning alive in a car accident, Drowning and soon you can find out what one IS experiencing when falling from a tall building. These interviews shocked me as it was nothing I could imagine; Investigate the points, prepare yourself to Life because you are living so why the hell we are not physically living but rather allowing our own mind to dictate us who and what we are? If you Dare to know the truth and debunk your fears - invest in this interview series.